Calm down mate, before you blow a fuse in your head.
Now as far you as your post, you should be whining and crying at the writer too who is demeaning anyone who’s gone through what you have instead of having a whine at me.
Secondly, to me the author came across as saying that people do have a choice to go back, but they don’t do, instead they prefer cash and its lure and that’s where their entire life is, around greed in foreign countries. I showed my disgust at those people. Was your father doing that? Ofcourse he wasn’t, Christ. He was making a living instead og giving a crap about money. Which is what I meant.
As for privileged don’t give me this sh!t. I have lost my own family members in Pakistan and no natural deaths, the great nation which we should all respect and not say a word against, and I have not been able to go to funerals same as your family, two at the last count. That’s some privilege, aren’t I thankful? From my own view I think the author is saying that people prefer to enjoy cash instead of coming back home for funerals, in my post I disagreed with that and it was directed clearly at anyone who does do that. Not at people like you. I should have added the word ‘greed’ in my post.
Maybe I didn’t get my point across properly and for that I apologise. 
2-4 lines and now cheerleading is your usual contribution in this thread. Explains a lot.