Re: outing wid in-laws
isn't that slightly selfish of you to think that by your in-laws going on holiday with you, you won't be able to enjoy it. Do you have to wear the duppata on your head? if not just pin it on your shoulders in a way that won't annoy you or get in your way.
Your MIL has health issues which may make her grouchy-deal with it, its not her fault she's in that situation. be a bit more empathetic..if you have to massage her legs what's the big deal, do it for a bit-it'll earn you browny points, plus you only have to do it for a bit after that when you go back the maid will do it. and won't your BIL help out.