at any trip only me and hubby hold her hand and give support to walk, bring meal for her n press her.my dewar doesnt do any work.
Allah will reward you and your husband for it, but by whining you are ruining all that sawab.
You will be answerable for your actions and your dewar will be answerable for his action.
Trust me when you will need any kind of help , someone will be there for you for the reward of your naiki.