Out of the book and other obsessive ways of taking care of children

your mom must have known my mom. I also got a jhoota hurled at me when I crashed the car at 17.

I dodged and before I knew she hurled the second on right on target. :D

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I was never attacked by a joota. I only got one thappar in my entire life…but then I was the most well behaved child one could ever have :snooty:

^ haha
yeah my dad was strictly anti-spanking because he himself got the beats so many times in boarding school and hated it. my parents preferred emotional jootas :bummer:

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Yes, emotional jootas…ask me about it :nahi:

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^^..:hehe:…what did she say or try then…??..
:smiley:

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^ LOL I'm not sure, actually. I'm sure she was wondering where on Earth this child came from and why she was stuck with her.

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^ lol!
be careful, miss, what goes around, comes around! ;)

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^ I know I'm in for it.

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i think the last time i got hit was when i was 19.

the last time i SHOULD have gotten hit…two minutes ago :hehe:

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^ Why, what did you do? :faizy:

Regarding jhootay: my parents never gave us a spanking… but my mum was a fan, if not a master, of the flying jhoota technique…not with my other siblings.. no no… just me! And she was so skilled at it that she could get the jhoota to curve in its path whilst it was travelling! I used to run to the top of the stairs with her stood at the bottom, and i used to say “haha, i’m too far away from you now for you to hit me”… and she would throwthe jhoota with such precision that would make it curve around the stair banister to hit me! :phati:

Regarding organic food: It’s a load of ol’ tosh. I’m not saying that eating food laden with chemicals is much better, but scientific evidence to date shows that organic food is NOT any safer or more nutritious than conventionally produced food.

My friend sent me this email a while back - I think it’s sort of on-point showing how parenting has shifted 180 degrees from where it was and not always for the better. I think certain study-based child-rearing techniques are not always logical…After all I think most of us turned out pretty well :halo:

DISCLAIMER: Not that I agree to all of the parenting choices in the article - some things our parents let us do was positively criminal :smiley:

KIDS WHO SURVIVED the 1930’s 40’s, 50’s, 60’s and 70’s Parenting Blog

TO ALL THE KIDS WHO SURVIVED the 1930’s 40’s, 50’s, 60’s and 70’s !!

First, we survived being born to mothers who smoked and/or drank while they were pregnant.

They took aspirin, ate blue cheese dressing, tuna from a can, and didn’t get tested for diabetes.

Then after that trauma, we were put to sleep on our tummies in baby cribs covered with bright colored lead-based paints.

We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors or cabinets and when we rode our bikes, we had no helmets, not to mention the risks we took hitchhiking.

As infants & children, we would ride in cars with no car seats, booster seats, seat belts or air bags.

Riding in the back of a pick up on a warm day was always a special treat.

We drank water from the garden hose and NOT from a bottle.

We shared one soft drink with four friends, from one bottle and NO ONE actually died from this.

We ate cupcakes, white bread and real butter and drank koolade made with sugar, but we weren’t overweight because WE WERE ALWAYS OUTSIDE PLAYING !

We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were back when the streetlights came on.

No one was able to reach us all day and we were O.K.

We would spend hours building our go-carts out of scraps and then ride down the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes. After running into the bushes a few times, we learned to solve the problem.

We did not have Playstations, Nintendo’s, X-boxes, no video games at all, no 150 channels on cable, no video movies or DVD’s, no surround-sound or CD’s, no cell phones, no personal computers, no Internet or chat rooms…….
WE HAD FRIENDS and we went outside and found them!

We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no lawsuits from these accidents.

We ate worms and mud pies made from dirt, and the worms did not live in us forever.

We were given BB guns for our 10th birthdays, made up games with sticks and tennis balls and, although we were told it would happen, we did not put out very many eyes.

We rode bikes or walked to a friend’s house and knocked on the door or rang the bell, or just walked in and talked to them!

Little League had tryouts and not everyone made the team. Those who didn’t had to learn to deal with disappointment. Imagine that!!

The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke the law was unheard of. They actually sided with the law!

These generations have produced some of the best risk-takers, problem solvers and inventors ever!

The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas.
We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned
HOW TO DEAL WITH IT ALL!

If YOU are one of them . . . CONGRATULATIONS!
You might want to share this with others who have had the luck to grow up as kids, before the lawyers and the government regulated so much of our lives for our own good.

Kind of makes you want to run through the house with scissors, doesn’t it?!

^ i quite enjoyed that! :biggthumb:

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Ammi was the president/CEO/COO of the "emotional joota" club. She never missed an opportunity.......not once.....ever.

sounds like your mum shoulda been a pro baseball player! :stuck_out_tongue:

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WOW! Sehrysh, thank you for that! It really echos my disappointment about the things that I had that my kids cannot...

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So I'm going crazy since the due date is coming closer and I'm put on bed rest, not able to do any of the stuff I planned, so someone make me feel better. Am I REALLY supposed to wash all the clothing and linens for the baby to accommodate a new born's sensitive skin?

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Sahar......I never washed one article of clothing before putting it on my child.

There.....feel better now?

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Yes :D

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^ do your nails! your hand nails, that is, i'm sure you can't reach your feet by now :p

say Surah Maryam or download it off YouTube and listen to it?

ermm.... get as much sleep as you can! :D

is the nursery all set to go? although since you're on bed rest, all you can do is supervise things.

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There see, so many folks washing brand new clothing, good to know I wasn't the only one who didn't do that :D