Re: Our Girls and Guys and Divorce Rate in Pakistan.
Increasing divorce rate, not so much a problem.
Stigmatization of divorced women within our community, a HUGE problem.
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Re: Our Girls and Guys and Divorce Rate in Pakistan.
^truly
Re: Our Girls and Guys and Divorce Rate in Pakistan.
Finally, the wedding day arrived. The occasion was joyous. His whole family flew in from Pakistan. Cousins, aunts, uncles, nephews, and nieces. They congratulated him on the beauty of his bride. The couple left immediately after the wedding for their honeymoon. Without realizing it, he had whimsically set the stage of magic and romance that he had once produced for Mubeena. This time, the acting did not rise to the occasion and Majid was a little disappointed. Oh well, she was young and inexperienced and there was plenty of time to perfect the details. Otherwise, the brief honeymoon was wonderful. They played in the sun and the sand. The weather was picture perfect. Majid told himself that her reticence was charming—that her shyness would pass.
Home again—he carried her over the threshold. They unpacked. He was tired and it was late. He went to bed. She had to phone her mother and would be up soon. An hour later, he woke up to the sound of muffled sobs. He walked softly down the stairs. His bride was on the couch, quietly sobbing into the phone as she spoke, unaware of his presence: “I can’t, I can’t! I’ve tried, but I can’t! He’s so old! It’s you I love…I don’t care anymore what they say…Oh, baby, I’m only 21. He’s 37! I can’t stand it when he touches me. It’s you I need inside of me…I’ll never be able to forget what we had, what we did. It doesn’t matter! Please forgive me, you were right…you were right…I love you, I love you!”
Here an article, I want to share with u people read that …
why age is such a big issue in marriage …lets see wht ppl did here…
http://www.chowk.com/show_article.cgi?aid=00001120&channel=leafyglade%20inn
The Virgin Bride
Nafisa Haji
August 4, 2001
Re: Our Girls and Guys and Divorce Rate in Pakistan.
i once knew someone who got married from family pressure, but it turns out he was gay and didn’t want to tell the family… guess how fast they got a divorce! such a moron 
talk about ruining someone else’s life cos you don’t want to face up to your own truth!
Re: Our Girls and Guys and Divorce Rate in Pakistan.
it is…i wasn’t kidding.
Re: Our Girls and Guys and Divorce Rate in Pakistan.
How about the families who don't respect nor treat their daughter in laws properly;
husbands not sticking up for their wives;
men who lie and torture their wives not necessarily physically but mentally as well;
wives who are unsatisfied of what they have and always keep on wanting more (materialistically, love and understanding can also be included);
egoistic spouses;
many people judge their spouses appearance;
women who want henpeck husbands..