Is Oral sex common among desi couples ? if so is it allowed in Islam ?
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What the ****??
Okies I get you now!!!
Oral sex is not approved hygenically in any state. And islamic point of view can be taken in religion forum, but I doubt that you'd be able to post your question there!!
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i read in some islam site on the net that different schools of thought have a different opnion (what a surprise?).
One says its ok..
they other say, its ok if it leads to sex
another opnion is its not forbidden, but its lisliked
and the fourth is its a big no no..
i also read somewhere that if it leads you to vent your fustrations (?) and stops you from actually going out and having pre-marital sex, then its ok..
so, i don't know what the final word on it is..
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hmmmm, I see some 'fatwa-shopping' around...
We oughta be Changez like, don't we?
wat do u mean its ok if it prevents u from pre-martial sex ??? is'nt oral sex just sex ... would'nt that be pre-marital sex !
and changez I did'nt get ur comment ??
To do in life is to appreciate it. To live life is to lose it. I dont know what I am saying so I will stop saying it.
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Originally posted by nomaan:
**i read in some islam site on the net that different schools of thought have a different opnion (what a surprise?).
One says its ok..
they other say, its ok if it leads to sex
another opnion is its not forbidden, but its lisliked
and the fourth is its a big no no..
i also read somewhere that if it leads you to vent your fustrations (?) and stops you from actually going out and having pre-marital sex, then its ok..
so, i don't know what the final word on it is..
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*oooops.. sorry.. i think this post was supposed to go in the mastrubation post. *
oh gimme a break nomaan!
and btw, according to my knowledge, In islam,
ANY kind of sex is allowed except errmm anal.
so it is allowed..
God this is weird,
is this gupshup..
i,m so embarassed!!!
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i,m going now…
Well my freind, it might be better to reach that hurdle in your life first and then discuss it with your wife.
Yes there is not specific prohibition in Islam, but use some thinking on this one ( a dangerous thing but hey ).
The Messenger of Allah forbade us from using our right hand when cleaning one's private parts after visiting the WC/toilet/bush/etc. I think it does not take too much of a strech of the imagination to realise that if the right hand cannot touch it, then the mouth may not also - think about it. On saying this then, I think your masturbation question may also be answered. This is just my understanding remember, not a fatwa.
If you are a single chap or chapess and would like to supress ure natural urges, there is fasting prescribed which will help to strengthen your iman. Also regular prayers five times a day would also keep you on the straight and narrow.
Whether if it is common or not, well then unless you want to carry out a survey and ask passeres by on the streets of Lahore/Karachi/Pinid (imagine the linch-mob) you can but only guess.
This topic just keeps on coming up. I sense much frustration.
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Originally posted by KAKA-ATOM-BUM:
**and btw,,, according to my knowledge,,, In islam,
ANY kind of sex is allowed except errmm anal.
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why? what so bad with anal? mostly just same as oral. And if your married, any sex is allowed. If your un-married, NO sex is allowed.
Isnt anal sex kind of painful?
yaeh it is. I don’t know, never tried it,
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But is sounds and looks real painful.
Dude.. I’m just writing what I read..
This discussion, is from Islamic perspective (my assumption, correct me if I’m wrong).
When I said about “I see fatwa shopping..” I meant people will go to different ‘molvi’ in order to get a fatwa according to their wishes/desires
So, know we now what kind of movies you like
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You’re secret is safe with us
well noman... wherever u,ve read that,,,
its wrong,,, u cannot have oral sex because u feel u,ll commit pre mrital sex if u dont have it... thats totally crap,, i mean how can u say its OK to do it to prevent pre marital sex,,
and sugar n spice,,,, i still dont know if ur a muslim or not,,,
for us muslims,, i,m sure anal isnt allowed... i,ve even read ke by doin that aap ka nikaah toot jaata hay,,
am not sure about nikaah tootna business,, but i know for a fact that it is not allowed in Islam,,, n i,m just giving my religious point of view.
n someone pointed out the right hand left hand theory,,
well my personal opinion regarding that is,,,
sex is a very spiritual n pure process i.e between a husband n wife,,, so i think u cant compare it with stuff u do while visiting the toilet. So i still think anything is fine except the one i just mentioned above,,, but then again,,, i,m not a scholar,,, so cant say for sure,, u cud b right n i cud b wrong.
tobba! I was just watching this movie and a seen like that came don’t worry i don’t like these kinda movies. only saw one.
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Originally posted by KAKA-ATOM-BUM:
and sugar n spice,,,, i still dont know if ur a muslim or not,,,
for us muslims,, i,m sure anal isnt allowed... i,ve even read ke by doin that aap ka nikaah toot jaata hay,,
am not sure about nikaah tootna business,, but i know for a fact that it is not allowed in Islam,,, n i,m just giving my religious point of view.
n someone pointed out the right hand left hand theory,,
well my personal opinion regarding that is,,,
sex is a very spiritual n pure process i.e between a husband n wife,,, so i think u cant compare it with stuff u do while visiting the toilet. So i still think anything is fine except the one i just mentioned above,,, but then again,,, i,m not a scholar,,, so cant say for sure,, u cud b right n i cud b wrong.
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Kaka, get one thing ok, i AM a muslim ok? i don't know ok i'm not a sex expert or something god.
I know, I was only teasing
i know.