This is pretty plain and simple. (I am not a scholar but will be using my common sense). Now in Islam keeping clean and tidy have been a corner stone as much as hygiene is also a corner stone. Now since piss comes out of the same tube as sperms do how could oral sex be morally allowed.
One of the reason nothing much was mentioned during the prophet's time was (maybe) it was never performed much during that time....
... and bye the way why would anybody want to perform it when normal sex is good enough!
awww pOOr u…did u sue those movie ppl 4 corruption ur innocent-te-maskeen mind??..
muhabatein theen kabhi apne dermian kitni…
bicha gaye hai anna hum mein doorian kitni…
abhi to toota hai dil hi teri judai mein…
girein gi hum pe abhi aur bijlian kitni…
IThe anal sex is haram for religious reasons but oral sex is not haram. I think it is "Makroh" and not a sin.
I think people ask this because they are desprate and they want someone to say "YES YOU CAN DO IT". For God sake if you want to do it then just do it, Why look for some ayat, or hadith or fatwa to back your desire.
After all I see people doing many haram things they even dont care about it.
"Away from Eyes......Close to Heart"
Actually I did'nt ask about this so I can do it! It was just designed to inform me about wat pakistani people think about it ?
Cause to westerners its a very common every day thing. I just wanted to see if it was common with pakistanis too.
To do in life is to appreciate it. To live life is to lose it. I dont know what I am saying so I will stop saying it.
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** awww pOOr u...did u sue those movie ppl 4 corruption ur innocent-te-maskeen mind??...
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no but i'll sue you if you don't shut the **** up. I'm not like that ok. You should learn to respect your elders no matter who or where they are.
i am sugar spice and everything nice, before messing with me U better think twice!
I know anal sex is forbidden and i think oral sex will not be alowed neither because there’s always the danger of precum/cum (which is naa paak) entering the girls mouth however it should be all right if you where a flavoured condom. lol
I think oral sex is great! I love listening to people having sex.
Oh hang on... that's aural sex...
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lol @ entering the mouth. I don’t understand, if married couples can’t have sex who’s supposed to? Anything is allowed after marrige isn’t it?
lol pilot25, now we know what you have going on in your walk-man from the net.
I can’t find any hadith from the prophet that prohibits oral sex. Some people thinks that Oral sex is Haraam in Islam other thinks that it is Valid. It might look disgusting for some people but if both partners find it to their liking then it doesn’t make sense for it to be forbidden…right?
Agreed about Anal Sex being forbidden. It looks way too painful for both.
I don’t think liquid entering girl’s mouth is a big deal, I mean it does enter from other route, right?
Very sensible post Babydoll. I agree whole heartedly. I have noticed that in all the forums of Gupshup, I find the girls responses so much more sensible , polite and to the point. Guys just get bogged down in petty details and egoistic jargon.
yeah bay your right.
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i am sugar spice and everything nice, before messing with me U better think twice!
Its shouldn’t be painfull if they use plenty of lube, like baby oil, vaseline even Pride corn oil should work, lol..
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(i wouldn’t recomment anal sex, heard it causes aids)
If its a muslim couple then they’d obviously be reading Quran, Praying Namaaz etc. with the same mouth which is disrespectfull… so 69 is a big NO!!! lol hehehe
Pristine!
Very good point. My understanding is that you can't preach something you don't do. So the only answer I can come up with is that if you think that you are a good Muslim which means prayers and reciting Quran then you shouldn't be doing all those wrong things you have mentioned above. On the other hand, people who don't pray and take care of the things that they should, they are only Muslim by name not by their acts and they can do what they like.
Right now, there is a different way of thinking.... Some people, aren't on the best behaviour but we are brought up in a way where we have a Guilt sense when we do things wrong and the fear of Allah is in the hearts and we try and find excusses for the wrong doing like drinking, smoking, lying etc. and then some people decide to try and be good until they do the next sin.
I don't know if it makes sense to you mate...
Regarding that point, it’s not strictly correct. Let me give you a brief example a hadith I remember:
A man who was intoxicated (drunk) saw another man drinking alcohol. He wanted to stop him but thought it would be hypocritical due to the fact that he was drunk himself. Later he asked Prophet Muhammed (PBUH) if he did the right thing. The prophet said that he should have advised the other person to stop drinking. Even if you yourself are doing something wrong, it doesn’t take away your duty to advise others on the same thing.
I guess it makes sense as nobody is perfect.
Slightly off track, but do carry on
Thank you CoolDude, I didn’t know that. I will keep that in mind.
i dunno about others but i found some of the stuff written here pretty offensive,, discussions here shud b strictly to the point,,, AND if members could use a bit of decency while posting on such topics,, it wud b really appreciated as i didnt find some of the terminologies and the type of lingo used ,, very well,,, a better way to look at it is,,,
imagine ur father or mother explaining something to you,, or you explaining something to ur children,, wat kind of language wud u use???
it shud b in limits of decency,,,
and the purpose of this forum is serious discussion,,, i feel some members think its funny to discuss such things,, and their replies werent very nice.
khair,,, take carezz...
ummm…tanhaa Was’nt that your new ‘oral’ thread that just got locked? I mean we already had this one ..just wondering..
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Why are you so obsessed with this topic btw? Is this all you think about all day?
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If there’s a new way I’ll be the first in line
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** why? what so bad with anal? mostly just same as oral. And if your married, any sex is allowed. If your un-married, NO sex is allowed. **
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To learn why anal sex is Haram even with your spouse, you need to read Quran. Read the part where Allah described His wrath on a nation called Lut. It was due to this Anal Sex.
Aren't there also more health risks from anal sex in comparison to "normal" sex?