Re: Options for a girl
i have been put through these cousins scenario, and believe me i would have marry one of them if i was attracted to them and think they would be compatible.
marriage is long term decision that will effect whole life, for better or the worst! so think carefully.
there is also in cousins, because sometime we know them better and also their flaws, we all tend not to like them as marriage material. and i have seen scenarios where people avoided cousins and end up with wrong people. as we do not know other people so well some time , we were shown only the glittering part of them not the flaws or the habits that you wouldnt like in a life partner.
so dont reject him straight away, think long term. think about compatibility issues, also think why you are not attracted to him? do you know him very well to make that decisions or you just saying no for his physical appearance ? if thats the case, there is no cure for that.
if its other issues, then you need to take him just as proposal and give him a fair chance.
for finding someone else in desperation that you want to avoid this cousin, also be careful.
if you think you cant find someone by yourself, ask your parents, family, and friends for other proposals outside the family.