I have been asked by a frd to get opinions on this situation:
He told me he has been going out with his gf for about 5 yrs now. He is 21 yrs old that girl is his high school sweetheart. He wants to marry her in the near future but feels that there are some issues that make him stop and re think abt his future with her. Whenever him n his gf get into small arguments, she swears at his mother. She also swears at his father, brother and his sister. She gets crazy and says really hurtful things. He told me that whenever he goes to a family member’s house, she gets crazy and swears at them too. She sometimes forbids him from going over to his cousin’s houses. That guy loves his brother a lot and he has to hear that girl call him stupid things that really hurt him. She does not like it when he stays out later than 12 am, and even if he does stay out later, she starts ringing off his phone non stop. She does not allow him to go to parties or clubs or anywhere that involves mingling with girls. He claims that he does not see that girl getting along with his family. He really cares abt his family. He wants to know wat he should do? Should he break things off with her? or hope that she will change in the future? He wants to know, is this relationship worth keeping?
