Would you be saying this if it were the guy being abusive?
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what is the root cause of her behaving in such a manner towards his family? Did his family do something to her in the past that has caused resenment towards them from her? he should have a serious talk with her first and then decide.
She cannot lock him up in a cage. Its not love if she has to do all of that. He should love her regardless. As far as him going to clubs a 5 year relationship is pretyt much a committed relationship and most couples go together or dont go at all. Once agian they need to talk about all of this first.
Had she been a good person he wouldn't be having second thoughts and asking for opinions.
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she sounds like a nightmare wife
tell him to RUNNNN and dont look back
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i have seen the worst cases of female till to that and what has been described here is just another one
my advise is walk out!!!!! HABITS never change, man/female both cases no matter now then or after............
Would you be saying this if it were the guy being abusive?
Sara it's not about a guy or a girl being abusive. I am certainly not being biased here.
first of all 5 years is a long time and such abusive behavior of girl should have appeared in the beginning only. if she was like that from the very beginning , why did the guy chose to be with her in a relationship for the next 5 years. There is something in the relationship that has bonded them together for that long period.
or if the girl has recently started changing her behavior and has become abusive and controlling then there must be a reason behind it which we here do not know.
or may be the guy has been putting up with it from the very beginning if that is the case he really has some mental issues.
guys are not that nice even in marriage & to speak the truth not even girls and they both are not even engaged. he could have easily dumped her long time back if he was so upset with her behavior. now why after 5 years he is thinking of dumping her ! many women put up with abuse for the sake of saving marriage and society and for children.......yahan to koi aisa issue nahin hai ?
thats why I said they should discus their issues and tell each other honestly what is going wrong. I didn't say they should marry each other I just said not to take a hasty decision esp after 5 years , because something has certainly gone wrong.
what is the root cause of her behaving in such a manner towards his family? Did his family do something to her in the past that has caused resenment towards them from her? he should have a serious talk with her first and then decide.
She cannot lock him up in a cage. Its not love if she has to do all of that. He should love her regardless. As far as him going to clubs a 5 year relationship is pretyt much a committed relationship and most couples go together or dont go at all. Once agian they need to talk about all of this first.
agree !
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...you should be seeing track marks on the ground from his running.
All you guys are saying that something has ticked her off? Fine, maybe something did, but she should have talked to him. Insulting his family isn't going to do anything. He will start to resent her if they get married for always insulting his parents, his siblings, his cousins. Learn from the past, live for the future.
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thats one kind of abuse verbal,the other kind dominating your partner it will get worse from there, the signs are a warning ,Id leave that relationship while I could.
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there is no question about it. the guy needs to cut the cord, and run. it's understandable that he wants to marry her since he's been with her for this long, and he's used to the familiar and what's out there is scary, but if she's acting this way abhi say, then what's going to happen in the future?
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Women use the most disturbing metaphors 
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There is no love and no relationship without respect.