Re: Opinions Required..
i think its ar rite for smaller periods to give both parties time to prepare for the wedding and think abt the relationship, u can pull out any time if u r not feeling comfortable . . .u know. in nikkah, u r kind a stuck. Engagements i have seen does not include boy/girl seeing each other during that time or talking on the phone.
One would ask then how would u get to know the person an pull out?
well ur family does that when they meet the canidate time and over
i remember my chachu was engaged for few months back in early 90s and we were having little parties every now and then but then every thing finished. Which party and why pulled out, i still dont know. . ... any way my chachu got married next year and living happily with three kids now. no problems. and the new girl he married is my fav chachy :)