Yes they are not lying but they observed what they wanted to see. Our mind plays tricks and it will show us what we want to and will let us hear only what we want to. If you show this picture to people some will see a pretty young
woman and others will see mother in law based on their personality makeup.
They just want to hurt you and get amused by telling the stories of your hubbies past. Real sincere friends will not do any such thing. Will you do that to your good friend ? I guess not.
If it was going on in the present then it was something of concern.
^ i can ONLY see the old lady!..i tried so hard to see the young lady but couldnt..what does that say about my personality?......aaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh!..am i a doomed pessimist?...
^ i can ONLY see the old lady!..i tried so hard to see the young lady but couldnt..what does that say about my personality?......aaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh!..am i a doomed pessimist?...
Well for your consolation when I was 20 years old and saw this picture in my human behavior class I could only see old woman , my professor had to outline it using his pencil to show me the young woman. Now when I was looking for this picture on the Internet for the purpose of this thread, on first sight, I saw the young woman and I had to struggle to see the young woman.
Our perceptions change with time.
This is the whole trick in the picture, the chin and necklace of the young girl works as nose of the old woman and the nose and eye lid of the young girl works as the eye of the old woman.Double click on the erased picture to see a young woman clearly.
islamically speaking it's none of ur bussiness about what tha past husband/wife actions were. if they have repented for it then tha deeds are between tha person nd Allah s.w.t alone.