wut do u think abt them???
You mean, like open marriages? I think it's wrong.
no no no!!!
i ment like open bf/gf relationships
sorry for the confusion!!!!!
As opposed to a closed gf/bf relationship?
worthless. what is the point then?
I thought the whole point of having a bf/gf was so that you exclusively have this one person for your needs (ie emotional or otherwise)
if you have open relationships, you might as well walk around with a sign "I'm slutty"
no offense to anyone
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*Originally posted by ~MuNiYa~: *
worthless. what is the point then?
I thought the whole point of having a bf/gf was so that you exclusively have this one person for your needs (ie emotional or otherwise)
if you have open relationships, you might as well walk around with a sign "I'm slutty"
no offense to anyone
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Exactly, if your a bf/gf relationship is open, then it's not a relationship at all.
Whats the difference between open and closed relationships btw? Those that r known to the public vs those which r hidden and secretive?
Open=ability to see other people
closed=Exclusive
haraam either way
Open relationships as opposed to Closed relationships. hmm.. how about we weigh the pros and cons from your perspective pyari_ji_2u?
Fret & Muniya: whats so wrong in being open? How does it make the person slutty? So you're saying its better to be silent? Whats the difference? slutty either way, no? going from "one" to another "one" cuz the "one" is being exclusive for that time period. Not all relationships start with the one and end with 'em. Sometimes its just one after another, after another, and another till you hit the jackpot. Why make it such a big deal whether its open or not?
Just because a guy/girl didn't get a long with another and it was known to the public how is it being slutty to find another publically?
I honestly don't see any difference, point it out will ya : )
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*Originally posted by ~MuNiYa~: *
worthless. what is the point then?
I thought the whole point of having a bf/gf was so that you exclusively have this one person for your needs (ie emotional or otherwise)
if you have open relationships, you might as well walk around with a sign "I'm slutty"
no offense to anyone
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i soooooooo agreein' wit ya wutz da point of being wit da otha perzon if u ain't gonna b faithful 2 dem n how in da world one gonan gain sum1's trust if they keep demselves open 2 every1
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"One of the most adventurous things left us is to go to bed. For no one can lay a hand on our dreams."
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*Originally posted by CocoNut: *
Fret & Muniya: whats so wrong in being open? How does it make the person slutty? So you're saying its better to be silent? Whats the difference?
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Doesn't make the person slutty, but what's the point of a relationship when it's open? You might as well not have a relationship at all, and just make the rounds.
just because u have open relationship..doesnt mean u r sleeping with every one u r going out with.. i dont see anything wrong with it. who knows there might be someone better out there then ur current bf/gf.
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*Originally posted by aMiGo: *
haraam either way
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who r u trying to tell....
ppl r now civilized enuff to grow out of the old traditions....
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just because u have open relationship..doesnt mean u r sleeping with every one u r going out with.. i dont see anything wrong with it. who knows there might be someone better out there then ur current bf/gf.
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agreed 1000000%!!!
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*Originally posted by armughal: *
who r u trying to tell....
ppl r now civilized enuff to grow out of the old traditions....
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These are not traditions, this is our religion.
Not to start a whole new arguement.. but Islam brought civilization (the time before Islam are known as the dark ages to all muslims)
and dating (in any shape or form) is haram ...
It is not uncivilized to be with one person (your spouse) but it is uncivilized and emotionally damaging to go from one person to the other...sex involved or not...
if u and ur “partner” are both fine with that then i suppose no one can really say nything because it is up to the individual, for them to decide whether what they think they are doing is right! but if one is having other relationships outside the already (some what) existing relationship then this unfaithful and damn right rude!!!
i suppose one is really to think about if they were ever put into such a position what they would do if their partner was to have other relations while with another…
there is indeed a limit to what one does…so i would personnally never do such a thing, but if somebody did it, it is not neccessary to judge one as a “slut”!
although this may sound like a contradiction perhaps having open relationships does in the end enable u to meet someone that u will be happy with!..u’ll never know unless u experiment! lol DONT TRY THIS AT HOME KIDS!
rite well i’ve had enough now so i’ll leave u lot to it!
it koo
there koo if ur mom and dad say it but if they dont know that suck cause if she/he come to ur house u cant talk the way u talk or do what u do cause ur mom and dad will get somthing thing so i like open but my mom and dad do NOT and THAT SUCK
open relationships, hmmmm. you might as well be having one night stands, cos thats what open relationships are like. i.e. if u want open relationships u might as well forget the relationship bit and enjoy urself with whoever you meet, but for the day only.
But if u want a relationship, then have just that - don't mess the other person around.
