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Well it is ok to fantasize but doing it..would be streching far. Like i said, if a man has to take it..he needs to take one by one. For example, i fantasize about having two girls in bed with me. Does that mean, i will do it..well heck ya..but don't know if it is possible. My guilt is gonna kill me eh!. It's like forbidden fruit..hmm.
blah. gross. abnormal, sad society labels such BS as fantasies and fetishes and makes it all acceptable.
jkjkjk. maybe not. ok jk
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It's ok..pepsi ki botal. I do not mind at all.
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to each their own
^that is a life saver for many...:D
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^o wow..you sound like my ex-girlfriend. Well, when i was in and since i was her first and vice versa. She would be like, "you don't think about any other girl with you..right???" At that time..i said.."Oh no..i can't..it grosses me out" and all that bs. So ya, bs aside..my fantasy was exactly that..which i told her. Have i done two girls at the same time..no i didn't yet..though i could.. if i wanted to ya know. Khair..i meant to say..sure not every man prefer two women in bed..but would love to have it..if it is given a chance. If you can't gulp this fact then..you are very innocent.
lol you know in desi culture, grls's brains are soooo trained from the very beginning, about how its one guy and one girl. i mean on this forum there are some grls who're saying...oh my my husband would never want another woman. thats just against human nature/instinct/nafs. nafs is present in both men and women but limitations are placed to keep the society running somewhat smoothly (there are always deviants tho). Well women at least in our culture are brought up so that they wouldnt think of any thing but just ONE man in their bed. and men are brought up to only prefer and want chaste women who think about nothing but their own man. Now some of our boys like yourself admit that they'd want two, three or four women at the same time in bed (btw thats not polygamy).
you ever think though that if it wasnt sooo taboo and condemned upon in desi culture...a woman might want more than one guy in her bed at the same time..given there's very few consequences like being called a wh*** or a sl**.
you see grls love attention too. they love it if every guy in the room at a party is mesmerized by their beauty so why wouldnt she want to enjoy all those men sexually too. food for thought but obviously how dare i bring up such taboo and sinful thoughts into my mind.
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^hehe, you’re back 
pure entertainment.
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^o wow..you sound like my ex-girlfriend. Well, when i was in and since i was her first and vice versa. She would be like, "you don't think about any other girl with you..right???" At that time..i said.."Oh no..i can't..it grosses me out" and all that bs. So ya, bs aside..my fantasy was exactly that..which i told her. Have i done two girls at the same time..no i didn't yet..though i could.. if i wanted to ya know. Khair..i meant to say..sure not every man prefer two women in bed..but would love to have it..if it is given a chance. If you can't gulp this fact then..you are very innocent.
Uh, no. I am fully well aware of what men can fantasize about. I am referring to my SO. To generalize that every man would love to bed 2 women at the same time is wrong because there are a TON of men who would never think about being with another woman and cherish the exclusivity they have with their wife, and respect their relationship/each other to even fantasize about it. And I am also fully aware of the fact that many men would LOVE if they could have a threesome or the chance to sleep with another woman but at the same time there are guys who would never even fantasize about it, let alone actually doing it even if given the chance.
So your "fact" is not really a fact at all, rather it's just your justification.
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you ever think though that if it wasnt sooo taboo and condemned upon in desi culture...a woman might want more than one guy in her bed at the same time..given there's very few consequences like being called a wh*** or a sl**.
you see grls love attention too. they love it if every guy in the room at a party is mesmerized by their beauty so why wouldnt she want to enjoy all those men sexually too. food for thought but obviously how dare i bring up such taboo and sinful thoughts into my mind.
I am sure many girls would take up on that offer if they felt it had no consequences and was allowed. BUT then there exceptions in both cases for both men and women. These exceptions would not want anyone but their partner regardless.