Open/Hidden-Chup Chupa Ke, Ya Dil Dehlaa Ke :)

What are the pros and cons of dating…

1- Without approval of parent(s).

2- With approval of parent(s).

(There is a thread on situation 1 )

Re: Open/Hidden-Chup Chupa Ke, Ya Dil Dehlaa Ke :)

**maiN ne fil-badeeh yeh parody banaa Daalii: ;)

kisii ke pyaar meN, ai yaar!
jo hai sab kaa Haal-e-zaar
koi dekhe yaa na dekhe
Allah dekh rahaa hai! **:D

Re: Open/Hidden-Chup Chupa Ke, Ya Dil Dehlaa Ke :)

No difference. You still have to deal with the woman whining.

Re: Open/Hidden-Chup Chupa Ke, Ya Dil Dehlaa Ke :slight_smile:

:hehe:

Isn’t it better that parents know? Situation 2.

Religion aside and assuming dating is ‘clean’. Really assuming here. :slight_smile:

Re: Open/Hidden-Chup Chupa Ke, Ya Dil Dehlaa Ke :)

well there's really no pro of dating without your parents approval, even if religiously dating 'was' allowed. it'd just be difficult to maintain a relationship whilst knowing your parents have no idea. although i guess you could get less of the interference in your personal matters if you kept them out of the loop..

Re: Open/Hidden-Chup Chupa Ke, Ya Dil Dehlaa Ke :slight_smile:

Parents? who cares about parents!!!

its your life…you decide what to do, not to do…:rolleyes:

Re: Open/Hidden-Chup Chupa Ke, Ya Dil Dehlaa Ke :)

When it comes to marrying yes, it SHOULD be upto to the kids, not the parents. Maa baap ne to nahi karni shaadi na ladki ya ladkay se, unnhon ne karni hai na aik dossray se. Simple.

Re: Open/Hidden-Chup Chupa Ke, Ya Dil Dehlaa Ke :slight_smile:

dating leads to good shadi?? :hmmm:

Re: Open/Hidden-Chup Chupa Ke, Ya Dil Dehlaa Ke :)

If it leads to a good shaadi then its all good, if it doesnt lead to a good shaddi then its the couples' right to make their own mistake. Not anyone else's right to pokoe their nose and interfere.

Simple, parents or anyone make their concerns known to the kids. Kids should take those onboard but after that it should be primarily THEIR decision. THEY are the ones marrying each other. Saray khaandaan ki shaadi nahi ho rahi rahi uun se.

Re: Open/Hidden-Chup Chupa Ke, Ya Dil Dehlaa Ke :)

hmmm...... should the kids expect parents to help them out if things get messy??

Re: Open/Hidden-Chup Chupa Ke, Ya Dil Dehlaa Ke :)

If they marry from their own choice then no they can't then cry. They should have that courage to solve it. but I highly doubt their parents would willingly sit back no matter what the kids did.

Re: Open/Hidden-Chup Chupa Ke, Ya Dil Dehlaa Ke :)

so thats like kids exploiting the parents....??

Re: Open/Hidden-Chup Chupa Ke, Ya Dil Dehlaa Ke :slight_smile:

^ You forgot to read my first two lines :hehe:

Re: Open/Hidden-Chup Chupa Ke, Ya Dil Dehlaa Ke :)

1- Without approval of parent(s).

If a baby pops out. Trouble.

2- With approval of parent(s).

If a baby pops out. They allowed it.

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Re: Open/Hidden-Chup Chupa Ke, Ya Dil Dehlaa Ke :slight_smile:

:omg:…exactly :smiley:

Re: Open/Hidden-Chup Chupa Ke, Ya Dil Dehlaa Ke :)

You are such a woman-hater.

Re: Open/Hidden-Chup Chupa Ke, Ya Dil Dehlaa Ke :slight_smile:

i will check both situations and tell ya :hehe:

Re: Open/Hidden-Chup Chupa Ke, Ya Dil Dehlaa Ke :slight_smile:

^hailo :wave:

Re: Open/Hidden-Chup Chupa Ke, Ya Dil Dehlaa Ke :)

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