Many problems can be averted by parents knowledge such as
1- Parent’s strong disapproval when someone actually falls in love after hiding the dating.
2- Guy having power over gal since he knows she is hiding it from her parents and is much more vulnerable.
3- Guy can use it against her, that if she is able to hide something from even her parents, she could do the same to him.
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Those who say no need for parental approval may be right but in practical, is this really possible to have healthy outcome without parents being happy?
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^But sometimes the parents come round and are happy in the end..
My brother wanted to marry a girl he had been seeing and altho my mum was dead set against the wedding (for a lot of reasons) at the beginning now they get on really well and she couldn't be happier lol
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^But sometimes the parents come round and are happy in the end..
My brother wanted to marry a girl he had been seeing and altho my mum was dead set against the wedding (for a lot of reasons) at the beginning now they get on really well and she couldn't be happier lol
Yes, possible. But that is like taking another chance.
Only trying to say that problems can be less if parents were involved/informed from beginning.
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1- Without approval of parent(s).
You wont gonna have any tactical, emotional and financial support to rescue your plan.
You always have to plan an exit strategy especially when there is a possibility of getting caught. and also gotta have a plan B in case plan A wont work out.
You always need a side kick as a backup and to keep you on the plan's track.
if you are not serious about the relationship then you have to worry about that other person don't fall in for you. but if you are serious about this relationship then you have to work on both lines of making your parents and the person you are relationship in agreement with your idea.
You have to do a lot of background check on your own. (financial stability, affiliation with religious sect, upbringing, educational credentials, background check, etc)
2- With approval of parent(s).
one will be lot more relaxed that they are not cheating anyone.
Your parents take it as you are serious about settling down so they will also look on their own, in case your date is not your dream
They will pressure you to make the decision
Since you were not expecting your parents are going to be this much considerate, you will think stress more that the date better workout in term of adjusting with parents.
too many peoples involvement means a lot of drama and a lot of expectations.
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What are the pros and cons of dating.......
1- Without approval of parent(s).
2- With approval of parent(s).
(There is a thread on situation 1 )
1- Without approval of parent(s). pros: you can date as many as you want with out having to asnwer your parents cons: if you can date someone with out telling your parents then likely chances are that you marry that person too without telling your parents
2- With approval of parent(s). pros: maintains your respect infront of your parents and others. cons: none
as for myself is concerned then
my input is going to be religion wise and its wrong.
and in any case i wouldnot call it a dating..i will call it a meeting with my future spouse to be.
parents approval is needed and one must take it there are only pros in that no cons at all. they should know where you are going and whom with...(applies to both girls and boys).
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1- Without approval of parent(s).
pros: you can date as many as you want with out having to asnwer your parents
cons: if you can date someone with out telling your parents then likely chances are that you marry that person too without telling your parents
2- With approval of parent(s).
pros: maintains your respect infront of your parents and others.
cons: none
as for myself is concerned then
my input is going to be religion wise and its wrong.
and in any case i wouldnot call it a dating..i will call it a meeting with my future spouse to be.
parents approval is needed and one must take it there are only pros in that no cons at all. they should know where you are going and whom with...(applies to both girls and boys).
So in essence you are saying
Parents need to know what they are up to...
and
........when it comes to dating/ meeting opposite sex person(s) as prospects to be married.............parents need to be in the loop for good and safer results.
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So in essence you are saying
Parents need to know what they are up to...
and
........when it comes to dating/ meeting opposite sex person(s) as prospects to be married.............parents need to be in the loop for good and safer results.
