*Only* marrying within your race - racism or preference

[Deeba1234]

Re: Only marrying within your race - racism or preference

@BlueBells

**Just because two people are from the same country/background doesn’t mean they’re more compatible. Culture is just the way people lead their social lives, food, music, language etc. A 2nd or 3rd generation Pakistani living in the West might have more in common with a gora than someone back home (not speaking about religion here). **
I’m sure someone might have already mentioned it on this thread that how people choose to pick their spouse depends on ones preference. My fiance is a Pakistani who was born and raised in the U.S but is brought up in a strict religious family. I’m from Afghanistan but I was born and partially raised in Pakistan . He’s completely whitewashed and I’m very desi-ofied and that makes us a really confused couple where I might not be as compatible with him because I’m too Desi for him even though he’s the Pakistani here. But what actually brought us together was what we seeked in our significant other in terms of religion and certain character traits.

Agree..