*Only* marrying within your race - racism or preference

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Re: Only marrying within your race - racism or preference

@Omer259

I didn’t mean that. Any guy can be paindoo, it doesn’t have to be mirpuri. That was my point exactly, that there is no difference between a mirpuri guy and a Pakistani guy. They speak the same language, same religion, same culture, then why divide ourselves?

Well im originally from mirpur and our family speaks pothwari, im marrying my cousin, i dont think i can marry a punjabi guy, first of all even though pothwarii is similar to punjabi in some words its also very differnt. I would have trouble conversing with him, also tbh i like the sound of the pothwarilanguage than punjabi. I would rather my kids speak english and pothwarii, so my mother tongue can be preserved. Also i speak very little urdu, and even my parents cant speak it that great they didnt finish their schooling back in pakistan.

Also I wouldn’t want to get married to anyone from sindh whatever, i cant even understand sindhi language at all. I respect them , but i would want to marry them personally. Their food is very different. So your thing about us all having the same food goes out of the window. Have you heard of “Ku-ini Kich-anee” before? My parents wouldn’t accept it and rightly so,

And do you know about the sidi people who live there? Pakistanis of african descent, would you marry a girl from there? She’s sitll pakistani?