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Hi im a 30 yo guy from the UK and i married a girl from pakistan. she is very religious and wants me to grow a full beard. i told her i will grow one when i feel like it but she says then i’ll never do it so she wants me to do it now. i’ve started growing one bc i dont want to fight with her but i am starting to resent her because i hate the way i look with this scraggly beard. she says she’ll allow me to trim it but i still am not used to it. she says it’s our Sunnah and quotes me Hadith all the time. I feel like she is controlling me.**
While i know all posters above are well-meaning, i wonder if they would’ve written the same thing to a guy??