You know why they can wear duputta and still look happy (maybe) and down to earth (yea rite) and confident (sure)?
Because its not a part of their life. They’re wearing it for various reasons, respect out of the country they are visiting, to try something new, etc. No one is forcing them to waer it, least of all their life partners.
It’s SO different from wearing it for the rest of their lives…its not just a piece of cloth or fashoin statement, its a whole lifestyle, and sorry if u dont want to hear ugly things but the lifestyle of these women is far from “Islamic” or religious.