agar tum na chahte huwe hijaab karti ho toh you will be bitter
agar tum nahi karti he will be bitter because unhone apni expectations tumhe clear ki thi shaadi se pehle
ask him if he can give you time because you’re not ready yet aur tum chahti ho k tum dil se karo
and if he says kab karogi jab marrjaogi toh boldo k insha’allah itni jaldi nahin jaan chorrti tum unki 
i can understand you’re annoyance
but main ek baat bolun please yahan thorra compromise karlo ..aap nahin chahti hijaab karna toh ghar mein nahi karo magar bahar jaate huwe karlo plz … because uski wajah yeh hai k he will always feel uncomfortable and his soul will be in agony k woh ek religious banda hai aur uski biwi uske saath sorta “benaqaab” ghuumti hai.
i’m religious myself but m not extremely religious…main parda warda nahin karti magar mera bhai 2-2 foot daarhi vaala sakht qisam ka maulvi hai. uskio jhunjhulaahat hoti hai agar main aur uske saath bazar mein bina naqaab k ghuume…toh meri mama uske sath argue karti hain k tum humaare baap ya husband nahin ho khabardaar ma k aagay bole toh…toh woh chup kar jaata hai but his agony is clear on his face so maine apni mama ko kaha k kya farq parrta hai if we go out with him at least hum chadar orh liya kare…apne bande/loved one ko kyun zaleel karna hai aise hi. you know if you go out with ur hubby without dupatta he is gonna feel embarrassed k yaar main maulvi aur mere saath meri biwi ghuum rahi hai bina sir ko dhampe…so please try to understand him n please apne aap ko samjhao k tum pehle se jaanti thi k woh aadmi religious hai…aur woh iss cheez ppe compromise nahi kar sakta cuz uske liye yeh choti cheez nahin hai…toh tum hi karlo kyun apne hubby ko tang karna hai itni si baat pe hai na…unhe bolo tumhe rishvat chaahiye sir dhampne k liye that he should look at you with love in his eyes (which he will anyway) and he should appreciate you for wearing dupatta for his sake even though you dont want to…if you put aside ur annoyance at this you will see how happy he is and grateful that you are doing this…believe me when u see him happy because you did this for him…it won’t bother you so much…he’s not trying to control you…he’s just trying to communicate what annoys him…so please remeber k unse zyada aapka apna koi nahin so if something annoys him toh itni si baat pe kyun apne aap ko bhi aur unko bhi azzeeyyat mein daalna…let it go apne aap ko samjhao you will feel good when u see him happy cuz tumne unpe yeh ehsaan kiya k jis cheez k liye unki itni strong feeligs hain tumne unki feelings ko aur unhe samjha aur unke mutabiq chal parri even if he dont verbally appreciate you he will in his heart and you will be happy k yaar bas itni si baat aur mera hubby itna khush…ghar ka mahaul bhi acha rahega andar andar ka conflict itni choti si cheez pe peyda na karo…life mein aur bohot si cheezein aayengi larraaiyyan aayengi agar ek ko avoid kar sakti ho toh kyun nahin?
plus woh bhi toh tumhaare liye sacrifice kar rahe hain na UK baithe huwe hain yeh soch k k unki wife ko adjustment period chaahiye he has taken care fo your feelings and moved to UK …plz ab aapki baari