Re: only married 2 months and feel depressed
FairyTale, I hear what you're saying, and every woman should do what she can to keep her marriage going. But she should not have to do something she isn't comfortable with. Everyone draws their lines in different places, but eventually, there is a line to be drawn.
Normally, it gets drawn before marriage...but...oh well. Some don't.
I don't think you should do something you're not comfortable with to please your husband, and I see no reason for any man to expect a woman to change her religious behavior when he knew prior to marriage that these were behaviors she was already CHOOSING not to institute in her life.
I think both are equally responsible for this. Sad thing is, these issues are so common. Cannot tell you how many couples I know who are now grappling with the hijab issue.
I fail to understand why a man would marry a non-hijabi when he wants a wife that wears a hijab? I just don't get it.