You have answered it yourself. Why cant we respect our religion , culture n our hubby’'s wish? A wish thats nothing but pure modesty he is asking from you.
No wonder ppl in west have gone so ahead of us and we ll be looked at as confused ppl always. Coz we are running after them. The day they started wearing dopatta on their head , i m sure we will do too.
Their lifestyle is far from islamic because they r not muslim 