Re: only married 2 months and feel depressed
First off all its not your fault that you are thinking this way. As Desi girls brought up in west we get this feminism hammered into our head. Things like dont let him tell you what to do or your life your choice and other feminist statements that we hear on Oprah and other media. These statements are correct and true but it depends on the situation.
There are worst husband out there that abuse their wife's, have no respect for them and cheat on them. The feminist statements applies to these wife's that are victims to these extreme situations.
In your case, hey did he tell you to do something wrong or immoral? if he is suggesting you to cover your head what is wrong with it? If you do guess who's life you are going to make it easier. Suppose there is something he does that you dislike or consider it wrong. If you ask him to stop doing it and he listens to you isn't the respect you have for him is gonna increase since he respected your opinion.
know where to draw the line but trust me this issue is definitely not something that worth this much worry.
When you marry some one you combine your life with their life.It's never a perfect match so you and him need to compromise and sacrifice on certain things to make it a perfect match. and trust me this is something he is not going to comprise so you should take the initiative.
and i am sure he is going to realize and respect you more for it!
Good Luck!