Re: Online matrimonials and Beautiful Women
this !
We are all created by Allah and it’s not right to comment or make fun of anyone. To call someone fat , ugly , dark etc is just so so disgusting. What I believe is that you should never look down upon anyone because you don’t know what Allah Has written in their fate. You don’t know that may be the person you are looking down upon today be blessed by Allah with so many happiness and achievements in future.
Someone I knew when I was kid was rejected by a couple of ladies due to his weight problem. Eventually he did get married but now after 20 years he is so successful in his career , have a wonderful palace like home , a couple of cars and beautiful kids. He is masha allah very very happy.
Another example I can give you is of a lady from my ex inlaws. I heard so many stories regarding her looks that dekh kar hi daar jao gi , shakal to aisi hai kay Allah toba etc etc. When I met that day she was so down to earth and was very kind hearted . Her husband was nothing when he married her but after marriage he did business , now they own several very well running shops in Karachi. They have sons and daughters , have a beautiful home etc and are masha allah very very happy. The best thing I saw was her husband respects her so much and treats her like a queen.
Attractions and looks does play a vital role. But like someone once said to me that it should be a 80 20 ratio. 20 to looks and 80 to rest of the factors.
Peace ![]()
PS: Marriages are decided my Allah. It’s not as simple as buying a TV for your home. If you think about it deeply with marriage are connected many things like children , wealth , health etc. Allah nay jo waqt muqarar kiya hai aur jo time us say baad main ya pehlay shaadi nahi ho sakti and believe me apka naseeb koi nahi cheen sakta.