online flirting

oOalyshaOo16 · December 1, 2010, 2:55am

Re: Fiance flirting online

If you really love him, talk to him first. That would be my first approach to this. Make it clear to him that you’re not a fool (he thinks you are which is why he is feeding you these lines) and:

Its not normal male behavior
Its not acceptable
It cannot continue
There is no double standard where a guy can do it and a girl cannot. Tell him if this is the kind of marriage he wants where you can flirt with as many men as you wish later on…then you’re not interested.

Talk to him and tell him point blank that you should be his first priority. If he cannot mend his ways, he needs to think about what he wants…does he still want to get some flirting and partying out of his system or does he want be in a serious relationship?

The reality is, it all starts with a bit of harmless flirting. If he is okay stepping outside the boundaries of your relationship to flirt with other women and entertain them…he can also do much more.

I agree, say IT to his face