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Woho. I have no love shove experience but i don't think anyone wl say what your fiance is doing is right or should be acceptable. It's kinda disturbing behavior. If he was flirting with girls in real life it would have been kinda different but sending msgs to randomn people like that sounds very disturbing. Maybe he needs help! I don't know what kind of excitement he gets by doing that. What's the fun in it? And how does he get appreciation from that? i dnt get it.
I have no idea what you should do about this whole situation but if i were in your place i would def be very concerned and think it through before agreeing to marry him. I would def get help from family.
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If he is really your fiancé and you love him , then you need to help him overcome this addiction. Since your confrontation did not help then time to get some professional help.
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This happens with married people too …
but in that case they both start flirting almost seems they are competing with one another, or in league with one another.
Anyway, if you like take a look at this link …
http://www.paklinks.com/gs/philosophy-and-spirituality/458031-is-flirting-cheating.html
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If someone likes a person but they flirt with others then that means:
a) They're low-life losers
b) They didn't really like their fiance, girl, gf, bla bla and were just all play acting.
Simple really.
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i'm not a male but i can tell u that this is NOT normal male behaviour. he is just making pathetic excuses. if he genuinely loved u and cared for u he wouldn't be sending these messages to other girls. i don't see this as harmless fun and it would be a deal breaker for me. to top it off he told u, u can't do the same because it's not acceptable behaviour from females!!
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This is definitely not harmless fun..
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Weird weird man.
Get shot of him.
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Zyada angreezi na maaro ^
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he needs a good talking to. you should be glad you've caught him now and not after you've married him.
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I recently caught my fiance flirting on facebook, it involved him sending messages to random girls on how beautiful they are and how he would like to get to know them better. I dont know what goes on with the chat.
I confronted him about this and he said it was completely harmless, he never intends to meet them in real life and that he does it for fun only and loves me, and that Im blowing this all out of proportion and that is a normal male thing to do, and that sure I cant do it because he believes its not acceptable for females
Im kind of scared of marrying him now because i fear he will carry on this behaviour afterwards and really i dont like it. I dont know if he will change.
I would really appreciate the views of the male members of the board. I want to know if this is normal male behaviour, maybe he feels appreciated with these women? he wants to feel hes still got it? I compliment him all the time and make him feel loved so I really dont know what more i can do
I guess there is the factor that he is more attracted to these women than me, im not a vain person but i dont think im that bad looking to him otherwise he wouldnt have accepted the rishta
really i appreciate your sound advice
I'll tell you this much--it certainly isn't harmless. I wouldn't call it a "normal" male thing to do, and even less normal for someone who is committed. I would also be worried if I were in your shoes. I don't know your whole story, but my instinct would be to tell you to find someone else.
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Hey Falooda .. sorry but fiances flirt with their intended.. not with random women…
… as a female , this sounds pretty dodgy:bummer:
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Gotta agree with everyone else, this is odd behaviour for someone who is about to embark upon marriage. And the thing about it's not acceptable to females doesnt say much for him either. I'd get out while you can.
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Falooda, this doesn't sound like a nice thing for him to be doing, since you guys are engaged. Infact, messaging random girls it isn't all that a great thing to be doing fullstop.
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Since it is suing season .Sue him . He is insulting you by flirting with other women while engaged to you. See Shak for details http://www.paklinks.com/gs/life-and-relationships/468077-yes-i-am-a-wakeel-see-me.html
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Mirch my man, you can sue away too its all free for you :roman:
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i feel bad for the girls and you. he's messing with their minds and making them think he's interested in them when in reality he's engaged to be married to you. for him it's just fun and games but some of those girls might be taking all these compliments seriously and will get hurt at the end. it would've been different if he was unsure and you had problems in your relationship but this is totally unacceptable
tell him to see a therapist and you go along to see whether his behavior is something that will change.
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and you go along to see whether his behavior is something that will change.
Yep I missed that in my serious advice.
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sue him!!
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what are characteristics of low-life losers?