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If you gonna cry yeah, then i suggest crying into your hands in prayer on the prayer mat. whatever the reasons for your tears your Allah will help you, Guaranteed. xxx
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Awww, I’m so proud of you! You are capable of deeper thought and consideration for others!
CM is showing signs of maturity…
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we talked and everything was back to normal until few hours ago.
I was playing my violin and he said it's out of tune. He took it from me and started tuning it and broke one of the 4 strings. He said it wasn't his fault and it happens all the time. (it doesn't if you know how to handle it properly)
So for the rest of the weekend he's booked, he has meetings, language courses, and friend gatherings to attend and I'm just gonna wait for... I don't know how many weeks before he takes my violin to a music shop. He wants to fix it again by himself but I won't let him.
He always ruins things for me like that.
I'm just sick of everything right now. Things just don't seem to be working for a long time now.
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Why cant YOU go fix the violin? And take his wallet with you??
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This is serious stuff. A shout out to Hareem's friends who live close by - go visit her. She can cry alone or you can offer your shoulder.
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^I don't want my friend's shoulder, I want my violin fixed. :D
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^ OK - in that case, mamlaa is not that serious :)
Cheers!!!
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^no...not anymore. I'm feeling much better, even though I lost the E string.
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How do your children react to your crying and low moods?
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How do your children react to your crying and low moods?
Who wants to appear weak to his/her kids?
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Aw, Hareem! It's okay to be sad and get depressed once in a while. Happens with me too and I just cry it out or watch some trashy reality show where I cringe for the people and thank god I am not embarrassing myself on national television. I have an electric guitar which I cant play b/c I refuse to make my nails short after I stopped biting them, =/, so I just strum it and the sound that comes out of the amplifier is so relaxing so I know what you mean about wanting to have your violin fixed.
Maybe you should try watching some TV show? You'll have something to look forward to as each episode progresses. Can I suggest "Maat", it's a Pakistani drama that started on HUM TV and it is absolutely amazing. Try youtubing it!
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Sit in a corner and drink till you drop … nothing beats that !
M’aaY se garz-e-Nishat hai kis ro-siya ko
ek Gona-e-baykhudi muje din raat chah’e ay
:hinna:
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^thanks M_was_here
Drink what? 
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just go out on your own to get it fixed obviously not now it’s too late but on Monday. I doubt any one would repair the string on a Sunday. I can easily relate to how you feel. I wish I had something to do as well, you know work, have loads of patients to see to, have a social life etc and my friends and family back with me. I can’t study alone this is my biggest problem. I have been postponing my exam for so long now as I can’t concentrate. And like I have been home alone since morning too since he’s on call. But it’s not his fault is it?
So on such mopey days, I cry for a while (just a little while) and then I pray 2 rakat hajat and just share all my feelings with Allah. And trust me, it instantly feels like a big burden has been taken off me. You MA have kids to spend your time with and am sure they keep you busy. You’d be ok IA
and you can always talk to me or call me when you are down, because am much much more farigh than you 
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^awww I definitely will inshallah.
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Resent couple of videos you had sent in an old thread - watch it - it is hilarious - as for the Hanuman (Hanu Man) reference, it comes at 1 min of 2nd video.)
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Dear lady........
i feel you need to see a shrink/psychologist/psychiatrist.............it seems you have some deep rooted issues.............putting them off is not going to help you...............you need serious proper professional help........... you have to do it for the sake of your own life and your children and your husband..............
thank you
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Resent couple of videos you had sent in an old thread - watch it - it is hilarious - as for the Hanuman (Hanu Man) reference, it comes at 1 min of 2nd video.)
lol...just saw it.
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Dear lady........
i feel you need to see a shrink/psychologist/psychiatrist.............it seems you have some deep rooted issues.............putting them off is not going to help you...............you need serious proper professional help........... you have to do it for the sake of your own life and your children and your husband..............
thank you
chal oye.