when you think, “what am I doing with my life?” or “how am I going to figure out my future?”
Days when you see no way out…what’s one supposed to do?
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Take a nap...... or Take a walk.....
think about how far have you came instead of how far you have to go
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I'm just sitting here and crying and crying....perhaps I should take a break from everything including internet.
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pms?
go take a shower, say yr namaz and go for a nap :k: it wl help you feel much better 
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dont sit. If you are alone, step out, look around, feel the nature … u will feel better
if its too much, call psyah. bug him at work like my begum does
"suneen, aap sai baat kerney ka dil chah rhaa hai " — “TU? KAROO” 
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it’s too cold outside…i haven’t even taken a shower and changed in past 4 days.
i don’t wanna talk to him…he’s always in a hurry or asking too many questions.
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Realize you have a better life than 95% of the world and count your blessings.
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it's too cold outside...i haven't even taken a shower and changed for the past 4 days.
i don't wanna talk to him...he's always in a hurry or asking too many questions.
If this true the last thing you should be doing is venting on GS. Speak to him. Some things should stay between husband and wife and not on GS.
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Why can't I just sit here and cry?
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aapnay aap say poocho...
..... 'kya tum muhtaaj ho? kya cheez hai jo Allah nay tumhe nahi di? aisa kya kuch hai jo tum aapnay aap kayliye kuch nahi ker sakti?' ...........
soocho aur himmat karo aapnay khud kayliye.....
............ harkat main barkat hai...
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it's too cold outside...i haven't even taken a shower and changed in past 4 days.
i don't wanna talk to him...he's always in a hurry or asking too many questions.
he will listen to you when you are serious. I also shut my work when I realize that begum is serious.
so, if you cant go out for walk, get off from PC and call him.....
if you wana cry, sure...go ahead ....cry as much as you want to. It also helps but then follow up by calling your mizaji khuda.
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Because crying alone is like drinking alone. It doesn't help and makes it worse. Your husband is the person you depend on the most. It seems like this is the perfect time for you to reaffirm your trust in him, you as a couple and your marriage. Log off and talk to him. If he is at work call him.
GS is not a substitute for personal interactions with the man you love kapish? Call him.
And in future don't make such threads when I am on line. I don't like being a civil human being on GS.
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look at the blessings of Allah and be thankful to Him.
Pray salat-e-tahjjud and ask Allah for best. this is what i usually do.
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count your blessings and realize that you are truely blessed with everything you need for the present.. health, family, shelter,food. dont let your future thoughts hold up your present :)
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I 
she is 
or perhaps 
psyah
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stop thinking and actually do something.
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Why can't I just sit here and cry?
Can i join you? :(
And in future don't make such threads when I am on line. I don't like being a civil human being on GS.
I like that :D.
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Sometimes it's good to cry to let it all out. You should have a good cry, then wash your face and go out for a walk, even if it's cold - you need the fresh air. :)
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take a glass or a plate and smash it against the wall
it ll help trust me how ...
it will subconsciously divert your attention to cleaning the mess you have made
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Eat ice cream.