Wolfie,
If you guys talk regularly then you have one up on most desi couples. Plsss don't mke it sound it like a chore/ agenda kay "Now Let's TALK about sex"!
You may wanna start by talking about how you really wanna spend quality "couple time" w/ her before starting a family. Both my hubby and I waited 3 yrs before t/ arrival of our adorable son last yr and boy are we glaaad we waited. It's never t/ same again. Both your lives will change drastically and ofcourse eveything revolves around t/ baby. So it's best that you guys wait and give each othr time and blahblah blah! I'd just tell her that how much you wanna wait and get to know her inside /out (literallly), travel t/ world etc. before sharing her w/ t/ kids etc.
Seriously discuss some form of precaution cuz believe me I personally know so many desis who didn't wanna get pregnant right away but did cuz all they did was just "talk" about not wanting kids right away and did nothing besides getting pregnant.
This misconception about t/ "pill" is so outdated it never ceases to amaze me how our minds are programmed to this old housewives tale now. Obviously there are a "few" who don't take well to t/ pill but on t/ whole it is t/ most suitable form of contaception. Ofcourse you are supposed to go to yur Doctor and discuss all forms of Birth control. I personally was on t/ pill and all went well. I gained a few pounds aftr marriage (as most girls do) not due to pill but due to my unhealthy diet & lack of regular xercise. ONLY SOME ppl get headaches and even tho I'm a migraine sufferer my doctr gave me very low dose of estrogen pills which didn't effect me at all. Besides t/ latest thing in contraception which is way less intruseive is t/ NUVA ring which is inserted in your vagine and has to be changed every month aftr your periods. T/ good thing about this is it does NOT travel thru your whole system. Evn you can use a condom or sumtihng. Goodluck:)