sister!
aapko yahan per jitnay bhi log miltay hn, theek ha jesa bhi jo koi apko kuch bhi kehta hai k aesay nahe aesay karo.
lekin aik baat yaad rakhnay wali ye bhi ha keh mian, biwi k darmiyan fasad ko hawa denay wala jehanumi hai ye Allah ka farman bhi hai aur hum sbko bhi ye baat samajhni chahye. yahan is forum pe mojood bohot se logon ne bohot si achi raey bhi di hn aoki situation k hawalay se lekin kabhi kabhi halat aesay bhi ho jatay hn jahan pe soch samajh k qadam rakhna hota ha, bjaey isk k her aik ki advice se confuse honay k.
aur mein aik bhai ki hasiyat se apko ye mashwara deta hun k na app meri baaton me ayen, na is forum k kisi bhi bunday ki baat me. hum to sirf apko mashwara hi de saktay hn.
aap khud hi itni samajhdar hn k app apne bachon ka aur apna mustaqbil khud bnanay k tareeqay samajh sakti hn.
yahan pe apko bohot se logon ne apk shohar k khilaaf bharkaya k ji aesay nahe aesay karo. theek ha apka shohar ghalat ha. lekin apko majboor kerna ya zor de ker koi baat apko kehna jesa k bohot se logon ne apko kaha bhi hai, jo mein ne bhi note kia hai, well it’s wrong.
aurat ko Allah ne khulaa ka haq bhi dia hua ha. ab ye apki marzi ha k app kis tarah zindagi guzarna chahti hn. taakeh apkay bachon ka mustaqbil bhi bn jaey aur apki zindagi bhi achi guzar jaey.
lekin aik baat yaad rakhna, k is duniya me aurat k liay bohot ziada kaantay hn aur phool bohot km hn, zindagi ka har qadam bohot soch samajh ker uthana.
isi mein apki aur apk bachon ki behtari hai aur isi tarah apkay bachon ka mustaqbil bhi bn sakta hai.
lekin kisi bhi mord per Islam aur deen ki taalimat k khilaaf koi amal aur koi qadam na uthana.
im trying to say from all this is that apko her qadam sirf deen ko madd-e-nazar rakh k uthana chahiye, na keh apne jazbat ko dekhtay hue.
Thats all to say
