Re: Once married whats the appropriate level of intimacy with female friends?
No one is saying you’re having a relationship with her but I do think you’re blowing her topic way out of proportion which seems odd if you’re just friends.
You don’t consider her much of a friend - I am going off of the vibe and language in your posts. I don’t refer to a guy friend as “that other man” to be quite frank with you.
If you don’t like her friendship - discontinue it. But don’t make it seem as if she is trying to do something she probably isn’t.