okay what wud u do in this situation...?

What I would do to make him/her friend and say ok we can be friend. Friend is the best relationship. Then try to win him/her by loving him/her caring him/her and all other thing.

But

First I'll ask why did you marry me at the first place. If it was forced why didn't you say no at the time of marriage. If husband says it then I would kick his face (dili khuwahish hogi per you know ladies can't do that). If wife says then I would say that is so stupid. I'll say same thing and aik zor ka chanta agar buchpun main lagaya hota to aisa na hota (as bari bi says for SRK in film Main hoon na).