okay…what would you do in this situation…?
we’ve all prolly seen this happening in movies and all …but what wud you do if it happened to u in real life…
okay say you get married and on the wedding night your spouse goes and say’s ./…“look , your a great person and all and realy dnt deserve to hear this but i think we should just be friends as im in love with someone else …and this marriage was forced on me”…? what would your reaction be …?
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why are u thinking all this?? given that u will be getting married InshaAllah in a week or two.
think positive yaar!!!
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You should says ... "thanks Bahi jaan and I am sorry that i m married to looser like you. Now go in that corner and start crying for the rest of your life as you deserve it."
After this u should go to sleep :D
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lol this is like the drama Mehndi .. she marries and then goes to the dude’s home and he doesnt even show up for the moun dikhai:cb: … and then it turns out he has a gal on the side and is about to make that gal her second wife but has a change of heart as he loves his wife too much … or has started to develop feelings for a person he sleeps with …
well go forbid this happened to me i will bash his head into the wall 
… but i dont think so:) .. riz is soo sweet and i have known him since babyhood and i know he never ever had any girl friend in his life apart from me:eek:
and he is now my hubby:D and well i am his girl lol
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orr kuch reh giya ha tu woh bhee bata du … 
You should says ... "thanks Bahi jaan and I am sorry that i m married to looser like you. Now go in that corner and start crying for the rest of your life as you deserve it."
After this u should go to sleep :D
lol hahahaha what an answer i kept laughin for the longest tym!!!!
where dus the bride get a gun frm>>>:D
angie it is lahore, if a bride from lahore wants the guns and stuff then ahem mere bande haina:chai: …
But seriously, does this really happen in real life? or is just in the movies and dramas?
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be well pissed, tell him off and find out why he married you (because he is a *face) abd now what does he plan on doing. have a face on at your valima, when you mil asks you what's wrong tell her she gave birth to a coward who doesn't know how to stand up for himself and without thinking may have just ruined how your life could have been. and then tell your mum what he said and then watch everyone cry about izzat and *e.
i ll tell him i wonder wat my father is gonna do to u now when i tell him all of this
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i actually know some girl who went through this, the guy's family had forced him, he didn't sleep with her and they were seperated within days, however the girl is still finding it hard to find a decent rishta, despite this. Some families are so cruel.
i would kill that man... n to be honest u dont need a bloody gun to do that!!!!
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realistically wot cud the poor girl do? i mean imagine being in that situation... i mean if she still wants it to work then she would hv to put up with his nakre & try to get him to like her & accept her (the way we see in films) and soon hel realise that his wife his great & he loves her.. or she could end it...iv heard of such stories & it does my head in i mean y not say something b4 the damn wedding? such guys/girls r such dogs
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welll........one of the reasons that i asked this was as most of you noe im gettin married soon yay...but i have the scariest fears like what if me and the guy dnt get along or wut if he dint wana get married and this is being forced on him or what if ,,,,what iff....what iff....like so many thoughts ..:(....and i dnt noe why i mean me and my fiance get along great together but ive heard so mannnyyyyyyyy stories of things going wrong....ive told my fiance and stuff that im reallie scared of getting married cuz of all the stories ive heard and his reply was "dnt worry i intend to make the best of whatever Allah gives me" and he's erally nice...but theres always doubts :S:S:S:S:S...and nothing against my fiance though i means he's a sweety like for instance ....duno if i should rite this here but my cusin got married last nov and the shadi lasted 30 days....later we found out the guy was gay.... and that this marriage waas forced on him ...and his family knew of his condition...they told him to marry the girl beacause it would save there image....and afta the shadi he cud continue on with his sick pleasures.......
another story happened to a close frnd of mine....she got married to a guy arranged marriage and the guy use to beat her...she lasted 10 months and then got a divorce....
so i was jus wondering how wud you ppl react to a situation like this i didnt mean to offend any one ....sorry if i did
realistically wot cud the poor girl do? i mean imagine being in that situation... i mean if she still wants it to work then she would hv to put up with his nakre & try to get him to like her & accept her (the way we see in films) and soon hel realise that his wife his great & he loves her.. or she could end it...iv heard of such stories & it does my head in i mean y not say something b4 the damn wedding? such guys/girls r such dogs
agreed
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well to answer my own question....if i was ever in this situation (allah na karey).....
i wud be heartbroken.....i wudnt noe wutta say and id call and tell my mom!!!!.....
i wudnt stay aminute with this guy...
and i definately wudnt stay quiet for his convenience!!!
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I am sure that you will be wearing high heels so use the heal to your advantage. Khopri main suraakh ho jai ga toh uss ka demagh khud he theekanay aa jai ga.
lol that was so funny…