Ok I know this might sound stupid

[Niksik]

Re: Ok I know this might sound stupid

@mirage

and whatever, but well I need you guys here.

There is a girl, an ex student, or not a student even, her younger sister was my student but since they both used to come to the college, so this girl, i dont know what her problem is. She is masters now, doing MBA and working in a bank. But she wouldnt stop texting me day and night. It were alright if all she sent was a little chit chat and forwarded messages, she breaks different news as well, like we had a party, this was my first day of job and stuff. I hardly text her back, but she never stops. What disturbs me is when she sends texts like “meri neended urha ke ap khud so rahi hain” and I miss you, I miss you Ma’am, most of the time. I mean even I wouldnt text my husband saying how much i miss him nor does he, and this girl. Well, now what I want here is: I need to correct my behaviour. Now she just called and I didnt pick up. I dont know why do I so shy away. replying via sms might be something else, but I should have picked when she calls, shouldnt I? Please tell me if you ever came across such admirers or whatever im so confused I dont even know how to put it, khair, so how would you deal with such a person? The way I RARELY text her back and almost never pick a call from her should tell her that I avoid her. I dont think I can be more loud than that, or should I be? God Im confused.

Yes I have a friend here locally who’s been doing such things a lot. I understand your position. And it’s not like I don’t aprreciate their fondness and all but the thing is that I don’t have much time to respond to long calls etc…and I’ve told her many times that I’m in the middle of something…can I call you back…and other stuff but she doesn’t get it.

Best way to deal with it is to ignore it for a few days. Then one day, text her back and say sorry you haven’t been available. Glad to know you’re well. We will reconnect another time. Something simple and straighforward. Maybe she’ll get the message?