Ok I am seeking justifications for my actions but

[Chipotle]

Re: Ok I am seeking justifications for my actions but

@Barfii

This guy sounds like a controlling nut job!!

“I want you to love me and only me”.. “I don’t want you to care about what your family or brothers think, I only want you to care about what I think”..

He sounds really petty (coffee business) and quite devious (not telling you about previous marriage/nikkah)..

I think there are better guys out there than him.. Infact, I KNOW there are better Desi guys out there than him..

Take your time and trust your instinct. If it don’t feel right, it probably isn’t. Don’t let his sweet words trick you into feeling something for him if you dont. just beause he maybe feels something for you..

Also, one last thing… **you say you feel awkward in being loved dovey/showing affection… but trust me, when you find the one, you won’t feel any awkwardness expressing your emotions of love for him..
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InshAllah, you will find the right partner and the two of you will have a long, happy and healthy marriage..!!!

B x x

It’s not about that, I am a very loving and affectionate person in general. It’s more in terms of having a mental block in my head which always restrains me of showing my affection to some one who is not my husband . I am 100% sure that I’ll beat the heck out of myself by just feeling guilty if I said something intimate to some one who is not related to me.

thanks for the advice, encouragement and such a lovely dua
p.s. can you please pass my details to those amazing guyz lolz