Re: Ok I am seeking justifications for my actions but
this sounds EXACTLY like something I was going through until…2 days ago when I finally snapped out of it and stopped talking to him. In fact, I’m almost scared that we’re talking about the same guy because things sound really…similar…but he’s not on the West coast so probably not…
anyways, something’s not right with this fool. Especially if he’s emphasizing the whole “it’s only about me and you”. The guy I was talking to upto last week said the same thing and my parents and I are really suspicious that its because there’s a shady shady past they’re hiding. Please end this! I know it’s painful becuase Im in the same position–as girls, we tend to get sucked into the sweet talking (I’m not a very intimate or mushy person but even I am “missing” all that right now)–but its worth nothing because it wont pay the bills, it wont make up for your incompatiblity, etc.
best of luck.
OMG !!! so this attitude is common in desi guys. Now I have to be more cautious and careful but it’s such a pity that actions of couple of people give a bad name to all the desi guys