forget all this mate simply one day out of no blue mention to ur friends ur parents arranged a gal back home in pakiland for u to marry, and u have no choice, and u cant say no to ur parents, she will be off ur back as soon as she hears that, as for the lie that would fade by itself in some time.
lol
Fraudia i am not afraid of the group dynamics, as honestly 99% of these guys and girls i have known for 3 or 4 years. She is a new addition to the group, so if things go bad they will side with me. That is what i dont want. I dont want to alienate her from what are also her friends.
Anyway read all you guys have said and basically i am talking the advice of a female friend here in geneva.
Simple truth is, i “supposedly” gave her the wrong signals. I dont see how i did it, but i did. 
Anyway the advice is simple, act with her normally as a friend. She could just be lonely and needs someone to talk to. I just tell her that i cant talk to her on a dailz basis and that i am too busy. Plus i have a nasty habit of reading too much into things… This girl has yet to be wrong on any issues relating to the women in my life, so i am gonna go with the one batting a 100.
But thanks.