^^ 
CM keep bringing in how you value her as a friend, if you do! Or have a third friend relay the message. Or go out with all your friends and get someone to act like your date!
Tell her you recently bought a new lint-remover and the best place you could use it on right now was her.
If she says, "screw you, a$$hole" and leaves. Job done.
If she says, "huh?" and smiles. Then per PA, she is a keeper. Next time invite her for a double header - (not that, you freak) but an Indian movie followed by 9 1/2 Weeks. And may be afterwards, yeah that, you freak.
^ What's a lint-remover?
CM, It seems gupshup hasn't taught you anything as far as the communication skills are concerned.
If you want to be polite, keep ignoring her, if she is smart she will get the signals. If she doesn't, "truth shall set you free".
All these players are telling you to be cool, I say just be yourself .. :-P
Please dont involve me in this crap. Just watch FRIENDS again and you can find solution for your problem:ahaa:
"You remind me of a sister I never had" works like a charm.
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He already has a sister :p
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He already has a sister :p
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A sister he never had. Read it again Shinoo.
And you are not to blame at all for the current state of affairs? 
Well, anyway, I think you should just not talk to her that much, don’t answer her calls, when you meet her don’t talk to her for too long, and generally just stay aloof. She’ll get the message and it will be easier for her to move on. Don’t say anything to her, that will just hurt her.
Go for it, and then break it off. Or just tell her she's ugly.
arrey miaan, ghar aai lakshman ko kon choRRta hay. Main tau kehta hoon "tau phir lagay taika?"
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arrey miaan, ghar aai lakshman ko kon choRRta hay. Main tau kehta hoon "tau phir lagay taika?"
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errr.. that's Luxmi for CM.. but you can carry on giving mixed signals to Luxman.
just be honest with her. tell her how u feel, it will hurt her in the begining but she'll get over in time. :)
:nono:
toba toba
kaisi kaisi baataaN karay haiN aap khaatoon~
CM- Man just be really gentle with her. Take her to one side next time you guys are alone .. and just say look we really need to talk ..
Whatever you do just keep this between the 2 of you don't go spreading it around that she likes you etc
Spare her some dignity
Just suddenly cutting her off when you've got common friends ..basically ignoring her ..would be far too cruel.
Imagine if it were the other way around how would you like to be treated?
Waqas
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Imagine if it were the other way around how would you like to be treated?
Waqas
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If CM was that dense himself.... i think he would deserve the same treatment..
CM
1) You can not avoid her because she hangs out with the same group
2) you dont want to just be straight-forward with her cuz she is vengeful and it can impact your terms with the rest of the group
I suggest you migrate to Burkina Faso. because then whether u tell her the truth or ignore her youwill not have to deal with the group dynamics.
or maybe your group has enough sense to try and keep it from being weird, if you and the girl can manage it, or even if only you can manage it. I was seeing someone who was in the same group of pals as I was, and when I called it off, some of them asked me why and I explained my reasons..i.e. why force something if their are differences in perspectives, why waste her time and my time..I think most of the ppl were fine, some probably had issues but I did what I knew to be right.
try it..
^Fraudia's right CM you are screwed lol
huh? 
Re: Ok i am screwed
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Pakistani girl getting clingy very quickly. Freaking me out. No details but suffice to say we dont know each other very well. Just met and she is getting weird on me.
I dont see her one day i get an SMS saying why didnt i call her. I never call her. She calls me. Called me today asking where i had disappeared to just because i didnt talk to her on sunday. (I have my own life).
Simply put i want out of this thing now. Either she got the wrong idea or i gave out the wrong signals. The only one i can think of was inviting her my place to watch a movie. Nobody else showed up so it was just me and her. Other than that i have no freaking clue.
HELP! I want out.
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I'm love to have women crawling to get to me...
But I'm shy. :)