Pakistani girl getting clingy very quickly. Freaking me out. No details but suffice to say we dont know each other very well. Just met and she is getting weird on me.
I dont see her one day i get an SMS saying why didnt i call her. I never call her. She calls me. Called me today asking where i had disappeared to just because i didnt talk to her on sunday. (I have my own life).
Simply put i want out of this thing now. Either she got the wrong idea or i gave out the wrong signals. The only one i can think of was inviting her my place to watch a movie. Nobody else showed up so it was just me and her. Other than that i have no freaking clue.
Tell her you aren't interested. Be gentle about it. Then, cut all ties including not responding to her messages if she continues to message you afterwards. Once it is over, it's over!
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*Originally posted by MehnazQ: *
Tell her you aren't interested. Be gentle about it. Then, cut all ties including not responding to her messages if she continues to message you afterwards. Once it is over, it's over!
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That will be hard as she hangs out in the same group of friends, that is how i know her. This is tough...but oh well cutting contacts here i come. Just have my friends watch out if she is invited i get a heads up before hand to disappear or not show up.
If you remain in contact, she may have a lingering hope that things will work out. That's why I say it's better to just cut all ties if you are positive that you aren't interested. Make sure you tell her though. The worst thing a guy can do is the disappearing act. At least she'll know where she stands if you have enough courage to tell her.
Well there is always a chance i will see her with some friend or something. That makes it awkward. I have to tell her, yippee now this will be alot of fun
on a serious note, i think Mehnaz has suggested the right way. Just be honest and open about it. And tell her what you think about what she is doing. That oughta work. Otherwise, as already mentioned, the cutting ties policy is good enough :k:
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*Originally posted by MyStiCaL_MisS: *
Tell her you only do what your mummy and daddy tell you to do,, she'll run away, she'll think.. your a boy not a man.
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hahah.. such naivette..you obviously don't know the clingy-stalker kind among your gender..
CM.. jub okhlee main sir dya to mooslon say kya dur
laikin khair.. aik tarkeeb bata daita hoon.... invite her over only when there are other female friends.. (pay someone if you have to).. establish that it's not just you and her but there are and will be lots of julie, sheila, rano, jamalos..
works like a charm..
and if she's still game.. man she's a keeper.. don't let her go away!
Too many 3rd parties as we hang out in the same group of friends (20 odd people). Women in general tend to be vengeful. This girl is full of spite and the such. This could turn ugly pretty fast.....
PA That wont work, i was hanging out in a group of other friends including girls, and she tends to hover near or around me....it doesnt phase her one bit.
Baji....hmmm....that would work actually pretty well.....work gets me out of social occasions and spending time with her. The baji part keeps me from being to informal with her. Beautiful. This works. Plus it would annoy the hell out of her! :D
Give in...no way. Hell no. she aint my type, plus i dont want a clingy female around me....hell no. Over your dead body....i do want to kill you right now....
