ok this is my pathetic question II
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lolz i dunno, its a bit of a mess .juss tell her u r not available n keep putting her off she’ll probly get ur drift. good luck :k:
Well if your looking to get married in the near future then why not give the guy a chance and just meet up. You never know.
What harm can it do?, and its not like anyone in your family is forcing you into it.
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u gotta love ur brothers advice
“dont answer the phone if u dont want to” :k: good stuff
I would have said meet him, but if your brother and dad have a wrong feeling about this, take their advice and don't meet him. You don't have to do anything you dont want to sadzz.
^ I agree.
Don't meet him. Your parents and brother already have a bad feeling about this guy. Listen to them. Take your brother's advice and don't answer. If by accident you do answer, just tell him your busy, that you'll call him back and then don't. He'll get the message. :p
do NOT meet him, he will eat you ALIVE :)
its strange (as in different from the usual way of things) how the rishtay walay went directly and talked to u instead of involing ure parents.. and since ure dad and bro already dont like teh guy.. then taht gives u the perfect reason to not go ahead.. just call em up and talk to teh sister of the guy since she is the one who called u .. and tell her that ure folks arent ok with it.. simple ...
BUT before u do this... ask ure dad and bro why tehy dotn have a good feeling bout this... i mean u havent even met the guy .. do tehy know enuff to pass such a judgement? and if in the end their reasons are strong enuff.. go ahead and end it with the sister...dont relaly havta tlak to teh guy
actually... why doesnt ure mom talk to the guy's family? we've had to let go of quite a few rishtas and i was never put in teh middle of it.. mom always handled it... leave it to mommy dearest :D
what if the rishta is also a guppy and reading all this :p
On a serious note:
You father is not ok with it, your brother is not ok with it, you are having problems with it. Why in the world would you continue this story then? Just cut it off, but talk to dad and bro before that, like khawateen suggested.
Why is it so difficult to say "no" now? It's ok if you agreed to meet him, maybe because you were confused, or it was too quick, or you were trying to save that aunty from embarassment, whatever the reason may be, however, you never said you WILL marry him no matter what. Meet him, talk to him, the aunty will be happy, and then say "no, things didn't work out".
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my bro and dad dont like the idea of me meeting him.. cus a) **he has no job *
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All of a sudden I'm majorly supporting your dad & bro on this one....
lol sadz 
the guy sounds like a real catch hehe…
just get ure folks to talk to the family… tum kiu beech mein perahi ho :halo:
poor guy....maybe he's being 'forced' to marry you as well....shakes head wat will he think about this rishta
Well there’s your answer. 
just kidding!
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"Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind; And therefore is winged Cupid painted blind." - Shakespeare
"Yes, yes," said the Beast, "my heart is good, but still I am a monster."
"Among mankind," says Beauty, "there are many that deserve that name more than you, and I prefer you, just as you are, to those, who, under a human form, hide a treacherous, corrupt, and ungrateful heart."
"Why did I refuse to marry him? I should be happier with the monster than my sisters are with their husbands; it is neither wit, nor a fine person, in a husband, that makes a woman happy, but virtue, sweetness of temper, and complaisance, and Beast has all these valuable qualifications. " - Beauty and the Beast, Jeanne-Marie LePrince de Beaumont
I am sure you aren't shallow but I wanted to share these quotes anyway.
My parents agreed to marry me to my husband despite him not having a job. What convinced them and me was his character, mashallah he is a very good man and not many people these days are. So if I were you, I'd consider this guy, you never know, you might be pleasantly surprised and maybe he doesn't have much in the way of looks but maybe he has oodles in something more valuable.