...." but i didnt make my night as slutty as whats becoming of this thread...sorry!"
im not sure how you can make a night "Slutty" or be "slutty" when he's your husband....?
I hope you dont mind me asking, i'm not trying to pick on you, i'm just curious to see how that works....
My mother is one of the MOST conservative ppl i know and my jaw fell to the floor when she suggested i buy night wear....not barely there u shoudnt bother stuff but classy pieces that show you are TRYING for your man.....i dont think there's much harm in that :)
i agree, whether something happens on the first night or not, its always nice to wear nice new undergarments- makes u feel good & ur still prepared if things do go that way lol
& if u feel comfy enough & do want to go 'wild' then hell yeah go for it, i mean its ur husband, nothing slutty about it, if anything he'll be over the moon lol
You already 'have' started your life with him. Lol..
Brides, If you're too tired the first night, too bad. But ladies, turn on the charm and turn up the heat. Leave the mushy stuff out and slip in to something that blows his mind..! Men like variety and good surprises:p
Go wild! ;)
Not all men are the same, and women make huge mistakes when they apply media stereotypes of men to the men they are closest to. The man loves you for who you are. Sure there should be variety, but you should in no way feel pressure to be different from your natural self in bed, and particularly on the wedding night. For many (most) Pakistani couples, variety on the wedding night is not an issue because they've never been together intimately before.
There are different ways to be intimate with your partner and to have fun and express your sexuality. It doesn't have to mean having intercourse the first night or buying the craziest underwear or role playing. Do what feels right. And don't drive yourself crazy so that you are stressed about it.
lol i dunno where this thread is being taken. whatever your tastes, i doubt any girl is gonna come out of the bathroom wearing an old oversized t-shirt on her wedding night.
one minute plain ol' sexy nightwear is being discussed and now it's like everyone was talking about wearing stuff from agent provocateur or something.
take a few different things and see what you feel like when the time actually comes!
so sad to hear things like this…agina its a stereotype, Im sure all guys r not like this (but yeah there might be some psychos but definitely not all). and EVERYTHING depends on TRUST:) If there’s mutual trust, there will be emotional security, deeper affection, and CONFIDENCE!
We all want to feel like princesses on our wedding; whether day (lengha/gharara) or night(nightie/pajamas). Wear what makes you FEEL BEAUTIFUL and COMFORTABLE; whatever it may be. Even if your marriage is arranged and you really WANT to wear a seductive nightgown; GO AHEAD--he's your husband for life and if you want to wear something conservative and YUMMMMY (of course cotton is soft and makes us all sleepyy) GO AHEAD...its YOUR day!
Even thought Im not married, I still think that we shouldn't give our wedding night A LOT of thought; just let everything unfold naturally:) Just being alone together, talking about the wedding, feeding each other chocolates, candlelight and roses seems romantic enough! and falling aleep in each others arms is a beautiful way to start your life together. Everything will happen and in order to make the most of it, think all ur girls need to stop DAY DREAMING and IMAGINING and just leave it to be..............keep remembering that you have your WHOLE ENTIRE LIVES ahead of you:)
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If you are not sure have sumthing which gives a hint :) yet is classy, like sumthing with deep back and side slits riding high.... in that way, you would have flexibility to** change "his views" by changing your sitting postures etc according to the "atmosphere" in your room.....**..
honey..what r u talking about?...hehe..i think uv got the wrong thread...:CareBear:
I would refer you all to the thread"porn something on the life and relationship" blog.
My freind got married to this paki guy staying in UK, she lived all her life in Pakistan, the guy literally said her" kya baat hai tum nay aj tak koi porn movie ya hindi film nai dekhi. kyun is terha statue bun ker baithi hui ho, go and undress and then come" she told all my freinds group as she was a part of it n said, be sure u entertain ur husband very well the wedding night!!!
