Hi
ok guys help my friend, and this is the problem he did SEX now what he asked me and i just told him not to do it agian and pray to God for his mercy but he was not satisficed and he says what gonna happen now so what shall he do what if he do it again
so lets see who can help him.
Its not clear what your question is?
This friend, did he engage in pre-marital sex and is now worried about STD's or God's wrath?
If he is worried about either of those, then why is he considering doing it again, or does he have zero self-control?
Is this dude muslim or non-muslim? Is he looking for ways to repent or what, meaning is this a religious query?
Nahi yar he is Muslim and he did it with his GF and i can't say any thing abt self control but u know ........
So, what is the problem? He wanna repent or is he asking for tips on self-control or worried about STD's?
Whats the worry?
Tell your friend to not lose any sleep over it. And also instruct him to cheat on her so he doesnt become pussy whipped.
I advise that your friend sincerely repents. not only him but she should also repent. Allah ma'aaf karnay wala hay. And i also suggest that he does nikaah with her. This will prevent any futher sins, and misunderstanding amongst each other.
I'm assuming that these 2 really love each other.
This might b totally off the track.. but i was wondering if 'doin the Nikah with her' will wash out their sin ?!? cos to my understanding.. wuts done is done... n there is no way they can get away with that! but then.. mayb m wrong.. i just need sum clear insight on this ..
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This might b totally off the track.. but i was wondering if 'doin the Nikah with her' will wash out their sin ?!? cos to my understanding.. wuts done is done... n there is no way they can get away with that! but then.. mayb m wrong.. i just need sum clear insight on this ..
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doing a nikkah will not wash their sins but if they seriously repent and ask God for forgiveness then God will forgive them. and if they do the nikkah this act wouldnt really be a sin then would it :)
Now listen very carefully....
The only way to save himself from the hellfire that awaits him is to do the following in sequential order 3 times.
1) Take a deep breath
2) eat 5 kajoors and two gallons of camel milk
3) Get laid again
3) Get laid again
Only this time with the camel.
ROman: You are correct. I think you just might have saved the guy from going to hell.
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3) Get laid again
Only this time with the camel.
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lolz!!
well whats done is done.. just ask for forgiveness from Allah miya.. and dont do it again. :) rest is upto Allah..
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*Originally posted by Chaltahai: *
Now listen very carefully....
The only way to save himself from the hellfire that awaits him is to do the following in sequential order 3 times.
1) Take a deep breath
2) eat 5 kajoors and two gallons of camel milk
3) Get laid again
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You missed the obvious option Chalta hai-hai.
To save himself from the Hellfire he could become a Hindu! Try the following steps to avoid damnation:
1) Cover himself in holy cow crud.
2)Lead a procession of cows to the local MacDonalds for a sit down protest.
3) Pop the wife on the BBQ ready for the big day when he kicks the bucket.
X-treme X-treme tsk..tsk Hinduism is not an option because there is no such thing as hell. You delusional momin.
No such thing as Hell? You've obviously never been to Kolkutta then :D
No but I have been to Mumbai, you know 72 virgins and all.
Just to keep the thread on the right track.
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*Originally posted by Aleezay: *
This might b totally off the track.. but i was wondering if 'doin the Nikah with her' will wash out their sin ?!? cos to my understanding.. wuts done is done... n there is no way they can get away with that! but then.. mayb m wrong.. i just need sum clear insight on this ..
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no. doing nikah is not a way to seek repentence. the only way he can be forgiven is by asking forgiveness from Allah and then never doing it again.
i really suggest doing nikah.
O my Goodness,
If the person was a Christian , then I can understand the advice of marrying the woman he has had sexual intercourse with. However, in Islam, there is not even a remote encouragement to marry the woman you've had sex with.
Now, if she's pregnant, then that's a different ball-game. I dont know what the procedures are on that other than flogging. Even then, I'm not sure if he's got to marry the woman.
The case you've put forth though doesn't discuss pregnancy , so definitely he does not need to feel pressurized into doing any nikkah with her, Islamically.
The only thing he can do is repent, and try VERY HARD not to do it again. Advise your friend on self-control in these matters, and insha'Allah, he'll have nothing to worry about.
become a budhist.. sit in meditation for hourssss.. n try to find inner peace ;)
Tell him to tell the woman that he is actually a woman, who had a sex change. 
And then go lunar.
I am not concerned with such folly matters.
All I know is that one is to beg for forgiveness, give up their decrepid manners, and find a better light towards inner and outer peace.
I say be ashamed. If its guilt thats bugging him, damn right taking adv. of a poor restless girl.
But in light of PC, what if the girl is promoting this promiscuity???
I’d say both should avoid each other.