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[Iyla]

@mclovin123

Okay, I disagree with almost all the posts here.

Your family and you are pissed because you guys were not in a video and the only scene, in which you are, makes you seem like a pig…right?

None of the posts above will help you to have a better and more honest relationship with your uncle.

people have taken out time and effort to give their advice only to have some nut like you come in and say the above nonsense.

@mclovin123

What will happen is that your uncle will get pissed and hatred will continue. He will do something next time and you will show him your anger and then he will pissed again and then you will take revenge again and then…the cycle continues.

I don’t mean to belittle your problem or your feelings but the fact that an issue is made out of it and an entire plot to take revenge is being made is absurd and does NOT help anyone.

I would probably tell you to ignore the issue but since you are really intent on expressing yourself then…

…go straight up to your uncle and his family when everyone is watching the video together or when another video is being made and then say “I hate you guys!!! you guys didn’t record me in the video and you made my mom seem like a pig. Now bec of this everyone will think we are so weird!!! SOO you know what…I’m NOT going to TALK TO YOU!..untiiiiillllll… you give me a treat…you made me look like a pig…now I’m going to empty your wallet like a pig…”

AND say of all of this in a FRIENDLY, JOKING MANNER!!! The same way you tell your friend that you are pissed at them…this will get the message across to them and at the same time…a sense of honesty will develop in the family where everyone will be open to each other and say things straight up to each others faces about what they think. There will be no hypocrisy in the relationship which is what constitutes 90% of the relationships among pakis. Everyone has an issue with each other and they all put a fake smile when together. It pisses me off. So…

Treat each other like friends, be blunt, don’t hide anything and you guys will then boooonnnnnd. Yaaaaay!

even saying that in a “friendly, joking manner” is rude and will make her no different than her uncle.