Not sure ..

normally i don’t like to share personal stuff,
Lakin Kyun’ke yahaan pe aksar guppies aisai topics pe batein karte rehtai hain to main nai soocha why not talk about it, aur phir its all annonymouse so it shouldnt be a big deal.:clown:
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anyway there was this turkish girl at my
previouse college who was
** intrested in me.:o
shuru main hum aksar break main baatein kiya
karte thai .phir **** i went to diffrent college so i asked her msn en phone nr via her friend.****

it has been monthes now and i havent paid much
attention towards her,i even stopped logging into ma
msn account ..she did send me a couple of e-mails jin ka jawab main nai nahi diya .i admit that was totally unnessaccery. :bummer:
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now a couple of days ago 1 of my friends told me
k she asked about you and that she wanted your
** cellphone nr (which he did not give to her,he wanted
to ask me first) ..wat do i make of that?is she still interested or is she mad at me?****:konfused:

she works at a place which is just walking distance from ma home.,i wish i had courage to drop by and tell her how bad i feel about the whole thing :frowning:
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M not sure wat to do…here is this girl..shes
nice ,looks very attractive ,wears hijab …in short a girl jis ki muje talaash thi :o..and yet i m very confused ..should i call her or let it go and forget everythin?
:bummer:

Ps: before u make any harsh comments please Keep in
mind, i never used her :mad:and i have never been in a relationship before so its all new to me and i don’t know the rulez:p

Why do you want to let it go and forget about her? Is she everything u wanted in a girl?
Why did you stop talking to her? was it a matter of out of mind out of sight, or you wanted to get rid of ehr so to speak?

Its good you recognize your mistakes. Im sure even though u didn’t “use” her in that sense, she must have felt a little bit hurt and wondering what hte heck happened.
BuT she is asking for your number, so it shows that she may still be interested…

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Drop by her workplace sometime and clear things out :)

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merey bachay tu to gaya :k:

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Was she definitely interested?

Maybe she just wants to be your friend.

Either way, you guys should talk and it may be better if you did pop in and see her/talk things over.

went to her workplace today..she wasnt there ..wasey
cellphone nr to hai lakin it would be better if i speak to her in person.aamnai saamney baat ki feeling kuch aur hi hoti hai:clown:

u got any idea how hard it is for sum ppl to share their personal issues:mad:aur tum ho k ooper say da’rra rahai ho:hinna:

Ager aisa na hota to main yahaan share nahi karta:o.

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ask her how to make Turkish Kebab:D:

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Larki ne apna msn diya

Larki ne apna phone number diya

Larki ne apka phone number manga baad mein

Aap kis cheez ka intizar karrahe hein? Ke vo apse akey boldly kahey ke "mein apse pyar karti hoon"?

Thori si zehmat karo. Pehle jakey maafi mango aur phir usko hamesha se khush rakhne ka vada karo.

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If you like her and she likes you then go for it. Especially if cultural, social or family differences are not so important for you. Otherwise, be clear and not vague about it at all so she is not mislead.

Turkish girls do have interest in Pakistani men. :) Mostly, Pakistani men try to run away from them for above reasons or their family comes in between.

Their mothers say: "Main Apni Bahu Se Baat Kaise Karoongi"

Its not like we were dating eachother,We never went out:@:we knew each other for very short period of time. Just couple
of monthes after we started chatting/hanging around,I had finised my study and got my diploma and went to different skool.

In short yessss…

I assumed k ho sakta hai k she just want sum1 to pass
time .Just wanted to see if she was seriouse about the whole thing.

Looking back ..It seems she was pretty sure about this whole affair.

Aisa hai kiya:hmmm: She wasnt at work today.ab pata nahi kal bi itni willpower ho gey k nahi.Akward feel to karoonga,Thas for sure..:hinna:

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Be a man and talk to her.

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Zaban-e-Yaar e Mun turkey, Wa mun turkey nami Danum!?

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Yeah man like wat russel peters said .... be a man .. do the right thing

So wat should i sayy...admitting mistakes and apologizing are not the same thing ...wat if she sees that as some kinda weakness?

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Be a man ...do the right thing :)

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^ i agree be a man, Do the right thing, apologise and go to see her. face 2face is better than over the fone. after tht get her number. And we'll look forward to reading your wedding threads :D

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Beta Hussein, jaisa baaqi sab logon ney kaha hai, mard ban aur jaa key bol daal,
" aye aati kya khandaala "

and then may be posts in Parenting :)

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and ofcourse the inlaws threads

more like hummus...yuummmm...i'am hungry.