not ready for marriage

Re: not ready for marriage

You icicle1 are making major assumptions about American girls… not all American girls are easy… Muslim girls aren’t the only type of religious girls who are chaste… I have Christian friends who are so hard core that they haven’t even held hands with their fiance before marriage… yes, in this and age!

I’m not assuming that the poster is a guy based on that comment. I have heard plenty of Pakistani people tell me that dating means “sex”. Most girls, even non-Muslim North American girls, don’t want to sleep around. They just want to be loved. They follow what they see in the media of being sexy and think that they need to be sexy and/or promiscuous to be loved. They have it all wrong but know that really deep down, they just want to be loved.