Not Meant to Be?

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Re: Not Meant to Be?

@zobia

these days you will see lot of guys in their 30z..dont know why but i guess they are more career-oriented thn ever before. they want to be established first and then start looking for someone in their teens.

I am not agreed with you… or may be in Pakistan scenario is different. guys are getting married in their 20’s mostly in late 20’s or as soon as they settle in their life. In my own circle of friends guys are getting married or engaged.

@ria786

Thanku all for your responses. It’s difficult for me because all of my friends in the same age group and younger are now married. I am not overly picky, all I expect is that the guy be educated, working and religious. You wouldn’t think that would be so difficult to find but apparently it is because my family has been looking for over a year now. My parents feel so bad when they have to say no to people but at the end of the day if theres no match theres no match. I feel old because my best friend now has a whole new circle of married couple friends and is constantly emphasising to me that im not married. I AM VERY FRUSTRATED and upset and have had enough of everything. Needless to say I don’t hang out with her much anymore.

Don’t call her your best friend if she is hurting you constantly… Stop talking to her… she is not a sincere friend.

I am 29 and still single… so what should i do now? … suicide because i am ancient…

I am not saying i am happy with my status… i feel depressed too… sometimes i plan for my future what if i can’t get married… i should concentrate on my career now etc etc etc… but whenever i feel depressed i make plans with my friends…so you should do that too. Make more friends spend time with them… hangout with them… enjoy your life… because when you get engaged you will not get that much liberty so enjoy your time as much as you can. Rishty asmanoo per banty hain… so you must have some one some where… just wait for a right time… keep searching for a good proposal… but don’t get depressed.. don’t feel like loser… you have a successful career MashaAllah. Be happy what you have.