Not Meant to Be?

[PyariCgudia]

Re: Not Meant to Be?

@ria786

Thanku all for your responses. It’s difficult for me because all of my friends in the same age group and younger are now married. I am not overly picky, all I expect is that the guy be educated, working and religious. You wouldn’t think that would be so difficult to find but apparently it is because my family has been looking for over a year now. My parents feel so bad when they have to say no to people but at the end of the day if theres no match theres no match. I feel old because my best friend now has a whole new circle of married couple friends and is constantly emphasising to me that im not married. I AM VERY FRUSTRATED and upset and have had enough of everything. Needless to say I don’t hang out with her much anymore.

That is not a friend. You tell her next time that if she’s so worried about you, instead of whining about how you can’t join her little club, either she recommend a guy for you or shut her trap. You’re not willing to settle for second rate nonsense, and there is NOTHING wrong with that.

Yeah, it is hard to find guys who are EDUCATED, WORKING AND RELIGIOUS. I know. I talk to so many guys, and it’s a wonder what these people admit to doing. The more educated, the less religious. The more religious, the less educated. There’s very little balance.