Re: Not Meant to Be?
Sure, but when I was 24, I was single. And I didn’t really think I was getting old. And like I said, all my female friends are still single. We’re all 25. None of us feel we’re old because ‘25’ is definitely not an age that’s old. And I didn’t realize that just because I had something, I couldn’t try comforting someone who didn’t? Sure it’s not easy for her since that’s what she wants…but then what is she supposed to do? Cry and mourn about it? Like I said - these years are the prime years of one’s life. You should enjoy it. And marriage isn’t all fun and excitement either. I have days when I feel that maybe I could’ve stayed single for a couple more years, just because marriage is a huge responsibility and it ain’t all roses. And I’ll miss my parents! There’s pros and cons to every situation, you gotta look at the pros…and leave it to Allah and pray. Dwelling over it makes the wait seem worse.