Not gona leave ..

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Re: Not gona leave ..

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Say there is a husband n wife they have been separated for several weeks no n they do not speak to each other .. But still living under the same roof .. The boys family have all tried to convince the girl to work it out but she says it’s not gon work n I deserve to be happy .. The guy feels that way to but he s wiling to work on a solution if the girl shows some initiative which she is not. He has moved out of his room n sleeping on sofa downstairs .. She has the room with attached bath to herself. She refused to do the housework when they were still together but now she does it sometimes I think so she doesn’t feel guilty for staying for free.

Shea looking for job n got called to interviews .. Eats n sleeps at the guys house .. The boys parents and sis pick n drop her to places he needs to go like school n when she goes out for dinner n movies with god knows who bcd she doesn’t tell them .. She s also opened secret fb accoun n keeps it hidden from boy n talks on done wid someone n when she feels hers him coming he tries to hide it n put tv volume up .. She Said she hates him n does not want to contue th marriage but he has to keep her cuz she has nowhere to go ..
The family does no feel like throwing out an alone Larki onto streets .. N even forced son to give back ring to her in th beginning when they felt there was a chanc that th marriage oulbe saved

Question is is it right to keep her in the house .. Having all the Ravi rites n luxuries a daughter in law would when she never fonez him .. Sometimes hez waited thinking she might fone him at work to try to reconcile .. N she physically assaulted him before that’s y he cannot stay in the room .. N when he threatened to call police she said you call them n watch who wins .. N before in a joke she has threatened to scratch herself to show police that but he knows he cannot ever touch her evn in anger bcd he does not want to get in trouble with police .. He feels she fights to instigate him ..

But she’s fine with the family n they r sleeping in separate rooms now n stopped talking to each other .. So hoe does the family go about getting her to leave bcd they r too nice to throw her out forcefully .. Wherevwill she go n what will she do sinc he refuses to go back to her home country . Sh told the boy I will go if u py for my zeperate living arrangement otherwise no im not going anywhere this ismy life .. I’m here now .. Bla bla

What should they do ? Boy is running out of patience n family is hurt at her outright refusal to reconcile with him n go on wid marriage .

Thanks for threads.

You have given life1 womenfolk plenty to work on. Girls Cmon, u have ur work cut out for u.